Sunday, October 24, 2021

Back Again to West Va., Firearms, Latin America

Have been away from the internet and DC for a couple of weeks, visiting my son in W Va. I had not seen him for 4 ½ months after Jiffy Lube ruined his car motor by leaving the cap off the oil pan after an oil change. A friend took me to W Va. but by the time I was ready to leave, my son had acquired a vintage Chevy van to transport me home. While we were together, we traveled in his “new” old van to visit a former fellow Peace Corps volunteer with me in Honduras, now a retired Spanish teacher. [A lot trouble posting again this time, so please excuse oddities.]


Here below is the new "old" van in which we traveled.

















My son is an animal lover. Here are some more of his pals, including a black cat which he feeds tuna, but which has been trained to never enter his apartment, even when he leaves the door open. However, dogs are his main animal buddies.

 




 















































I consider myself bilingual, as I’m comfortable speaking either Spanish or English. The retired Spanish teacher friend we visited in W Va. is likewise comfortable in either language.

Another bilingual friend is dedicated to retaining the purity and grammatical integrity of Spanish in the US despite the onslaught of English all around. As a member of the North American Academy of the Spanish Language, he submits periodic humorous, sometimes ridiculous, examples of anglicized pronouncements in the US Spanish press and advertising. While he may have embarked on a noble effort, still, maintaining the purity of Spanish in a country where English predominates seems like a lost cause. Interestingly enough the USA (including Puerto Rico) is the nation with the highest number of Spanish speakers after Mexico, more even than in Spain, the mother country.

Maybe this is just a hunch that needs further exploration, but since many of Alec Baldwin’s staff had walked off the film set in protest, I wonder if someone might have surreptitiously put a real bullet in the gun he fired in a deliberate effort at sabotage? It’s something to be explored, although there were apparently previous gun mishaps on the set. Why make so many movies with gun themes anyway? Why glorify gun use?

The 74, Record-High Gun Violence Sweeps The Country, More than 1000 Kids Killed in 2021

Firearms proliferation in the US makes domestic terrorism that much more deadly. Domestic terrorism now has become a greater threat here than foreign terrorism, something always aided and abetted by Donald Trump, but not due totally to his influence. Rather, he seems to be more an expression and embodiment of the frustrations and grievances already being felt within a segment of the polity and magnified by social media.   

Nov. 28 is election day in Honduras and thank goodness that Juan Orlando Hernández will no longer be in office.

AP, Gang boss in Haiti threatens to kill abducted missionaries

 

NBC News, ‘We know terrible things can happen:’ Cuba opposition leader vows national march

In defiance of Cuba's government, a young artist who has emerged as one of the country's leading opposition leaders vowed that he and others are moving forward with national protests planned for Nov. 15. “We know we can go to prison, we know terrible things can happen," Yunior García, 39, told NBC News via WhatsApp messages about the planned demonstration to demand civil liberties in the communist country. "We are already living them.”

HuffPost, How Spanish-Language Radio Helped Radicalize A Generation Of Miami Abuelos

MIAMI — Virginia’s mom has parroted a number of lies in the last year: The 2020 presidential election “was stolen, of course.” Antifa and Black Lives Matter share responsibility for the Jan. 6 Capitol riot. Joe Biden is a pedophile. Disagree? Then Virginia’s mother would say you’re probably a communist.

Virginia, a 58-year-old Cuban immigrant who lives in Broward County, north of Miami, says that many of her mother’s radical views stem from the same source: misinformation on regional Spanish-language talk radio. To her growing dismay, Virginia says her mamá, 79, is an avid listener, with particularly strong allegiance to right-wing commentators on Radio Mambí, Miami’s leading Cuban-exile station.

Reuters, Human Rights Watch says Cuba arbitrarily abused, arrested protesters in July

Cuban prosecutor warns dissident leaders against November protests HAVANA (Reuters) - Cuban prosecutors on Thursday summoned dissident leaders from across the country who have called for protests on Nov. 15 over curbs to civil rights, warning them against convening the rallies under penalty of the law. The protest leaders, organized by a Facebook group called Archipelago, have called on Cubans to demonstrate for the right to peaceful protest and an amnesty for imprisoned government opponents. The group says it has some 20,000 members, many of whom live outside the country. The Cuban government last week denied permission for the protest, saying Archipelago had links with "subversive organizations" and an "open intention of changing the political system in Cuba."

 

Monday, October 11, 2021

Holiday, Virtual Reunion, Peace Corps at 60, Nigeria News, Kilauea, Democratic Agenda, Vaccine Exemptions, French Clergy Abuse, China, Migration, Tourism, My Son the Dog lover, Dreams & Secrets

Today, hope my readers had a peaceful Indigenous Peoples’ Day, or Columbus Day for supporters of Christopher Columbus (in Spain, he was Cristobal Colon). My son Jonathan, adopted from Colombia, a country named for the explorer, had his ancestry analyzed and likes to emphasize his indigenous heritage, though he also has Spanish ancestry, a common combination dating back to the days of Columbus himself.

Art, now known as Arturo, is a former fellow Honduras Peace Corps volunteer, who, after retiring, recently moved to that country. When he informed me via email that he was planning to visit El Triunfo, my first Peace Corps site, I managed to send him (through a convoluted system) a signed, inscribed copy of my book Triumph & Hope to deliver to someone living there mentioned in my book. El Triunfo is the “Triumph” of my book title. The recipient was Neris, who appears with me as a child on the lower righthand corner of the front cover and whose youthful handwritten farewell appears at the end. Neris is now married and a mother of three. I last saw her on my 2020 Honduras visit. Art not only delivered the book, but sent these photos of El Triunfo and of Neris and her children and also managed to make a phone connection where I got to talk directly with her. Neris told me that she and her husband had gotten their first Covid shots and that about 30% of Hondurans are now vaccinated. She said everyone in the family is doing well and asked when I would be coming back to Honduras. I told her when and if medical brigades, where I can be of service as an interpreter, come back, assuming that I still have the strength then. Here is the town and Neris with her kids. Her daughter is now 12. 




While there may be downsides to the instant global connectiveness afforded by the internet, it has been wonderful for me to now be able to communicate directly with my friends all over the world in real time, no longer waiting  anxiously for my letter to reach them and for me to receive a reply. It was even better to be able to talk by phone directly with Neris (and with Art). When I spent 3 ½ years in the Peace Corps in Honduras back in 2000-2003, the internet was only just getting underway in Honduras, so I relied on snail mail and jealously guarded and reread each precious letter. María Elena, the Triunfo postmistress who, alas, has since died, traveled weekly by bus to the nearest city, Choluteca, to pick up our town’s mail, where often my mail was all there was. She had it delivered to my door by a boy a bike who earned a small tip. By the time I was ready to leave Honduras, I had a whole suitcase full of letters, all burned in a huge bonfire.  

Sixty years ago, the Peace Corps was first set in motion by JFK’s exhortation: “Ask not what your country can do for you — ask what you can do for your country.” Now Peace Corps is starting back up again post-pandemic, ready for 60 more years.

My friends in Nigeria, where vaccination rates are low, have told they’ve just gotten their first Pfizer shots.

Lava continues to flow near a residential neighborhood decimated by the Kilauea volcano eruption on the Big Island of Hawaii. I have witnessed other lava flows there, spectacular at night, causing continuous clouds of steam to arise from flowing into the sea. Though I can be mesmerizing, it’s important not to get too close.

CNN released a survey finding that 78% of Republicans now believe Biden did not “legitimately” win enough votes, even though he had the largest plurality in history, over 7 million more votes than Trump. So Trump’s misinformation campaign is having an effect.

While Biden’s approval rating has fallen below 50% (Trump’s approval was below 50% during his entire presidency and his vote total in 2 elections never reached 50%, even though he won office via the Electoral College.) Senators Joe Manchin and Kyrsten Sinema have de facto veto power over the Democratic agenda, as either kingmakers or deal breakers. If there were even 2 more Democratic senators, as would happen if DC won statehood, something unlikely in my own lifetime, then their clout would be greatly diminished. (If wishes were horses, beggars would ride!) Republicans have been doing their level best to prevent Democrats from achieving any major legislative victories, even if their own constituents would otherwise benefit, though they did finally make begrudging concessions on the debt limit.

Whatever happened to bipartisanship? It went up in smoke when Donald Trump came on the scene. He still holds an iron grip on the Republican Party. His supporters don’t seem to care about his policies or lack thereof, they just worship the guy. Do they identify with his flaunting of political norms, with his ability to get away with lies, misogyny, and probable tax evasion? Republicans oppose him at their own risk. According to Business Insider, a majority of Republican voters believe white people now face discrimination and that Christianity is under attack.

On Sat. evening, Oct. 9, I happened to tune into Trump’s speech in Iowa, where he called Nancy Pelosi “a nut job” and accused “deranged Democrat” lawmakers of trying to impose socialism. He berated Republican Senator Mitch McConnell for not challenging the 2020 presidential election. A mysterious cabal, “they,” have corrupted the media and interfered with elections. ”They” are killing babies even after they’re born.




In the US, police and fire fighters have suddenly gotten religion, claiming religious exemptions from vaccine mandates.

Reuters, UPDATE 6-French clergy sexually abused over 200,000 children since 1950, report finds [While allowing priests to marry and permitting female priests, as I’ve long advocated in my books and talks, would not end clergy sex abuse, it would greatly diminish it.]

 

Gun violence continues unabated. A Florida woman shot the T-Mobile manager who had fired her, though he survived.

 

Daily News, Staten Island teen shoots mother to death with father’s gun during crazed quarrel: NYPD

 

Washington Post, Woman fatally shot in D.C. had obtained protective order against suspect

 

Axios, Afghan ambassador: Biden doesn’t care about fate of Afghan girls [The ambassador, who is female and a holdover, is probably correct that Biden is not fretting about anyone still in Afghanistan right now.]

 

The International Rescue Committee now helping to resettle Afghan refugees is the same organization that placed my late Cuban foster son with my family back in the day. It’s a worthy organization.

 

Xi, flexing his muscles after subduing Xinjiang and Hong Kong, seems now to be looking at an even bigger prize, Taiwan. Would the rest of the world risk war to protect democratic Taiwan? Maybe not could be Xi’s gamble. Biden has tried to reassured Taiwan and the world that Taiwan is not in any danger. Meanwhile, economic problems seem to be arising in China.

 

And after China’s one-child policy was imposed through forced abortions and sterilizations, Xi is now encouraging a three-child policy, but Chinese women are not buying it anymore. Back in the one-child era, I knew a couple from China with a single offspring who were able to move to the US where they soon had two more babies. Also, a Chinese visitor to my home at that time lamented that he and his wife already had a daughter and were not allowed to try for a son.

 

The romantic dream of an abundant and carefree life in these United States is still alive and well in Haiti, Cuba, Central America, and many other parts of the world. (Across the Atlantic, the dream seems almost as powerful for migrants to Europe.) It’s an aspiration so strong that it has persisted ever since I was a Peace Corps volunteer in Honduras more than 20 years ago, and had existed even long before that. Are we who were born here actually experiencing that problem-free fantasy? When I lived in Honduras, I tried to talk sense into Hondurans, attempting to incentivize them to improve their circumstances right there at home, both as individuals and collectively. I warned them about the risks of the journey, about likely deportation, and that the US is no paradise, rather a life replete with all the usual human struggles and tragedies, as my own experience has amply shown. When they didn’t listen and went ahead anyway, then were deported, I resisted saying “I told you so.” And also I did my best to help obtain prostheses for unfortunate young men who’d lost limbs falling off the Mexican freight train called La Bestia, the Beast, on their journey north. 


Migration, even when the odds of success are low, is a prime example of the occupational therapy principle of the subjective value of engaging in purposeful activity. As long as migrants foresee even a small chance of success, they will continue making the gamble. They will bring along offspring because they’ve heard that parents with children are more often admitted. As they risk their lives and those of their kids by trekking through wild jungles or sailing through treacherous waters in homemade boats, common sense does not prevail. Teenage girls may disguise themselves as boys and travel with a group of trusted boys. WhatsApp allows instantaneous cellphone communication among them, so any disinformation is widely shared. AP, Number of children crossing Darien Gap hits record high

Mexico has been flooded with migrants, some of whom remain there. Migrants are all playing a lottery, hoping to be among the lucky few who actually will make it. Then, if they do get admitted to the US, the real struggles begin, as I have witnessed myself as a Spanish interpreter for immigrants in their own homes, court, and medical offices. They soon realize they have not arrived to heaven on earth.

Axios, Senate Democrats express "outrage over the cruel treatment" of Haitian migrants at border

 

USA Today, A Guatemalan father brought his 10-year-old daughter to the US-Mexican border and regrets it

Market Watch, Panama to bury more migrant victims of the brutal Darien Gap

 

Reuters, Chile police bust crime ring smuggling Haitian children to U.S., Mexico


Reuters, Two Haitian families, two diverging fates at U.S.-Mexico border [Two families with children, one deported to Haiti, the other allowed to join US relatives to await asylum hearing.]


AP, Haiti to UN Security Council: Help us handle gang violence

 

NBC News, Satanic rituals, forced cannibalism: The kidnappings and extortions of Central American migrants

BBC, Cuban baseball players defect during tournament in Mexico

At least nine young baseball players have defected during the World Cup in Mexico, officials say. [At least 100 players have defected over the years.]

Miami Herald, Jailed Cuban artist Otero Alcántara is on a hunger strike, other activists join protest

 

[The following is in Spanish, so activate your Google translator, if necessary.]

«Arte en resistencia»: exposición digital del Movimiento San Isidro

La exposición digital del Movimiento San Isidro, “Arte en resistencia”, es organizada por CADAL junto al programa Art in Protest de Human Rights Foundation. La exposición muestra cómo el arte, en cuanto forma de resistencia, se ha transformado en una práctica cultural en Cuba e incluye obras visuales, audiovisuales y literarias de Luis Manuel Otero Alcántara, Amaury Pacheco, Yasser Castellanos, Afrik3Reina y Katherine Bisquet, con la curaduría de Claudia Genlui Hidalgo, miembros pertenecientes al Movimiento San Isidro.

AP, Nicaragua's President Ortega calls bishops 'terrorists'

 

Washington Post, Most of the Caribbean is under a 'Level 4' travel warning. Islands still want visitors. The majority of destinations in the Caribbean - as well as Bermuda and the Bahamas - are characterized by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention as "Level 4" because of very high rates of covid-19, which means the public health agency recommends avoiding travel. Those countries and territories include such popular spots as Jamaica, Puerto Rico, Aruba, the U.S. Virgin Islands and, as of Monday, Barbados. In all, more than 20 destinations are listed as Level 4.

Another handful - including Anguilla, Bonaire, Turks and Caicos, and Trinidad and Tobago - are Level 3, which means covid-19 is high and only vaccinated people should visit. Just a few are at the two lowest levels, including the Dominican Republic and Cayman Islands.

My son living in W Va. has always been an animal lover, especially of dogs, but is not allowed to have a pet now in his rental apartment. Instead, he takes friends’ dogs out regularly on long walks. Whenever the dogs catch sight of him approaching, they become super excited. 






In a bid to address modern mores, apparently Superman’s teenage son has “come out” as bisexual. What would Clark Kent say?

 

My readers know about my ambivalence about “abortion rights.” I try to make sense of that concept in the context of readily available and pretty effective birth control. Brittany Spears says an IUD inserted without her consent has prevented her from conceiving for years. If women can now prevent pregnancy nearly all of the time, why is there such a demand for abortions? Is it that now readily available abortion makes the sexes more equal after unprotected sex? I am trying to understand the strong views of abortion rights activists. 

In my dreams, sometimes we are speaking Spanish, though less often now than when I was living in Honduras. For someone like me, who has lived so many years in so many different places, the kaleidoscope of dreams can play out in different and surprising ways. And when I was taking anti-malaria medication, I could better recall my dreams.

I dreamt recently about my father’s maternal grandparents, living out on their wheat farm near Stavely, Alberta. In my dream, though details are fuzzy, they were homesteaders inspired by Little House on the Prairie. In real life, my Dad’s father had immigrated to western Canada from Scotland’s Isle of Islay. Of their 12 children, all of whom survived, the oldest and youngest (my own grandmother) were girls, with 10 boys in the middle. The girls helped their mother in the kitchen, as well as with washing and mending clothes and cleaning the house. The boys worked with their father outside, not only tending the wheat, but their animals. After all the kids had left home, their father renovated the house and the parents poured through the Sears catalogue to order brand new furniture. Finally, their home was just the way they wanted it. One day, they hitched up their buggy to go into town. But when they returned at dusk, their house with all the new furniture had burnt to the ground, apparently ignited by a stray coal. Only ashes were left. My grandmother said her mother really never recovered from that loss. 

When someone we know seems clueless about a personal issue that is pretty obvious and is fairly common knowledge, such as that their spouse is unfaithful, or is a liar, gambler, or a secret spendthrift, we avoid becoming tattletales or disrupting the delicate balance of their marital relationship or of our friendship. She (or he) may seem to be maintaining willful ignorance, seeming to overlook telltale signs. We may also feel that what she doesn’t know won’t hurt her. 

Likewise, there are widespread romance, inheritance, or grandparent scams that prey on personal gullibility. I’ve encountered all three, but not succumbed to them, though they are often clever. There’s the man smitten with me just needing a temporary loan, the official-looking letter with a UK stamp and postmark informing me of a surprise inheritance, and my estranged grandson calling me after an auto accident. I’ve mentioned some of these before.

Everyone wants to be loved, to be useful, and to remain healthy. So out of compassion, we may go along with a friend overlooking her spouse’s betrayals or her child’s misdeeds or even her own health prospects after a troubling diagnosis. We don’t want to be the bearer of bad tidings, so we try to protect our friends. Each of us lives in a subjective world. So I sometimes wonder if there is something about my own life and personal relationships from which others are protecting me? At this point, I may not even want to know.

 

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Monday, October 4, 2021

Hispanic Heritage, No DC Voting Rights, Same-sex in Kenya, China’s Actions, College Students, Life Expectancy, Covid, Gun Violence, Women’s March, Federal Budget, Peace Corps, Caribbean, Partner Abuse, Dreams

A shout-out right now to Hispanic Heritage Month (Sept. 15- Oct. 15), a heritage I share by adoption and celebrate as an honorary Latina, as per a name given me by a Honduran woman. Here I am celebrating Hispanic Heritage Month with a friend out at sidewalk table a few blocks from my home. (On this posting, I am no longer going fret about font and other changes made surreptitiously by blogspot--the reader should just enjoy the variety.]


USA Today, Supreme Court rules against legal effort to give District of Columbia a voting member of Congress [This is a very unfortunate but not surprising decision. After more than 50 years of living in DC, I don’t expect us to achieve voting rights in my lifetime.]

Quartz, Kenya has banned a documentary for portraying a same-sex relationship

In this film, one member of this male couple is apparently married to a woman. In my experience in Africa and Latin America, where same-sex relationships are taboo, it’s not so unusual for a man married to a woman with whom he has children to also have a male lover on the side. As someone of a certain age, I recall observing such arrangements in the US as well in my early adult years. At that time, I witnessed 2 married women with children in an off-and-on relationship and knew single ladies living as long-term “housemates.” We avoided any comment, knowing that same-sex couplings were actually illegal then and certainly considered immoral. So it may be the same now in Kenya, Honduras, and elsewhere.

Evergrande, a Chinese real estate conglomerate, is in trouble now because of its massive debt. The Chinese government is intervening, but exactly how is somewhat murky. https://www.cnn.com/2021/09/24/investing/china-evergrande-group-debt-explainer-intl-hnk/index.html

Meanwhile, in a complicated high-stakes exchange, after Chinese tech executive Meng Wanzhou was permitted to leave Canada, then two Canadians jailed in China were released over the following weekend and a brother and sister were allowed to return to the US.

BBC News, China lets US siblings return home after three years

 

The bare majority of Democrats in the US Senate has given Senators Machin and Sinema outsized power and has put the Biden agenda in a precarious position, especially as more progressive Democrats are also flexing their muscle in the other direction. Will the American people actually benefit eventually or lose it all in this fight?

 

In 1980, 60% of US college students were men. Now, in a complete reversal, 60% are female and the ratio is even worse for minority men. Top business positions are still occupied by men, but the current gender imbalance in college, though different, is as troubling as it was back in 1980.

 

Times have certainly changed since my youthful working life when, as a recent college grad at age 21, more than 60 years ago, I was a social worker at the Alameda County Welfare Dept. in Oakland, California. There, we women employees were required to wear skirts below the knee and nylon stockings and when only the men among us were upgraded to new positions involving punch cards, a forerunner of computing, we did not complain. We just considered it the way the world worked.  

 

Trump’s appointee Postmaster Louis DeJoy has announced with some apparent satisfaction that postal delivery is going to be slowed even further. Can’t his term be cut short?

 

I still like Andrew Yang and his advocacy of ranked choice voting, but it seems as though his day has yet to come.

 

As indicated previously, life expectancy has fallen in the US, reportedly with 2020 showing the biggest drop since World War II, with Covid, gun killings, and increased drug overdose deaths all playing a role. The reduction in life expectancy affected all categories: men, women, Hispanics, and blacks.

 
Covid deaths in the US now top 700,000, the most of any country in the world. Yet vaccination and mask-wearing are resisted by substantial numbers still claiming “individual rights.” Covid shots are not only about protecting an individual, but about protecting others in contact with him or her and reducing the burden on hospitals, as well as on keeping the virus from mutating into more lethal forms. It needs a human body to do that. 

Unvaccinated Texas man’s lower legs amputated after COVID battle. ‘Learn from me’

 

While lots of firefighters have suddenly gotten religion, asking for religious vaccine exemptions, when push comes to shove, they and many other vaccine holdouts eventually will get vaccinated. Few religions actually prohibit vaccination and deniers should not be allowed to rely on vaccinated others to protect them.

 

NY Times, In Portugal, There Is Virtually No One Left to Vaccinate Eight months later, Portugal is among the world’s leaders in vaccinations, with roughly 86 percent of its population of 10.3 million fully vaccinated...About 98 percent of all of those eligible for vaccines — meaning anyone over 12 — have been fully vaccinated...

Tiny Bhutan, shielded by mountains and ruled by a hereditary king, also seems to have vanquished the virus. I just got a message from there:  Hi aunty, has been a long time since I hear from you. Hope you are doing good well. There is no community case for many months in Bhutan, but still we wear mask and follow Covid protocol. We are very happy that with blessings and hard effort by our king and leaders, everything is brought under control. 

 

A promising development regarding Covid is the production of an effective antiviral treatment. Reuters, Merck says research shows its COVID-19 pill works against variants

 

However, while effective Covid prevention and treatment may be within reach, in the US, gun violence continues. The gun death toll in our country now is not a rare anomaly or due to a few freak accidents, but an everyday occurrence.

 

Daily News, 11-year-old girl killed in Wisconsin shooting; 15-year-old boy arrested  

 

The Grio, Illinois boy, 8, killed while playing on porch after shooters fire at family friend


Tampa Bay Times, Man shot and dies after parking space dispute in St. Petersburg

 AP, Boy shot, wounded at Tennessee school; juvenile detained

Washington Post, Shootings never stopped during the pandemic: 2020 was the deadliest gun violence year in decades

During 2020, over 20,000 people died after being shot and an additional 24,000 died by gun suicide. Some 100 Americans die daily by guns. Firearms sales surged during 2020. There are more guns in civilian circulation in the US than there are people. In contrast, in the UK, where neither ordinary citizens nor even most police are armed, the rate of gun deaths is miniscule by comparison. “Right-to-life” advocates need to get behind efforts to stop the US carnage, including supporting curbs on gun access.  

 
I attended the women’s march the day after Trump’s inauguration as a protest against his presidency. Such demonstrations do take place within walking distance of my home. The Supreme Court, where marchers usually end up, is located just blocks away. Because this year’s march was so focused on “abortion rights,” I just decided as both a birth and an adoptive parent not to take part. While having an abortion may feel liberating to a woman, making her more equal to a male partner, the fact remains that if her pregnancy had proceeded, the live birth of a unique human being would have been the probable outcome. That is precisely what an abortion is intended to prevent.

Though abortion has been characterized by advocates as a “Constitutional right,” I don’t recall the Constitution ever being amended to include it, though perhaps it can be inferred under the right to privacy. In any case, the Constitution can always be amended, as I would advise be done to limit “gun rights,” another “right to life” concern. I do take issue now with the 24-week cut off. Perhaps when Roe was decided, no infant born before 24 weeks gestation could survive, but that timeline has moved back since and 20 weeks would be more realistic now. As I have said, I have seen fully functioning (though somewhat delayed) babies born after 21 and 22 weeks estimated gestation.

Abortion efforts have existed throughout history, but have only become more effective in recent times. Prostitutes used to provide sexual outlets for young men while unmarried women guarded their virginity, which protected them from pregnancy. However, unwed motherhood doesn’t carry much stigma today. And largely effective birth control also exists now, unlike in the days when my great-grandmother had 12 children. So demand for abortions should have diminished, as, indeed, it has. I do sympathize with the argument put forward by some women that having an early abortion had allowed them to give birth later when they were more ready to bear and care for a child. And having fewer children has allowed women to work outside the home and to compete with men for jobs, though birth control is mainly responsible there. In Honduras, where abortion is illegal, a young woman I know who became pregnant after a failed tubal ligation, simply went ahead to give birth to the baby, her 3rd child. She then had the sterilization redone successfully the second time around.

At the recent women’s march, pro-life counter-protesters were identified as “abortion rights opponents,” rather than simply as “abortion opponents.” An advocate with a mustache, self-identified as a trans man with a uterus, made the case for “abortion rights” for “pregnant people” of “all genders,” not just women, indicating why that usage is now in vogue. In the Washington Post style guide, “pregnant individuals” seems to be the preferred term and either that or “pregnant people” is also used by NPR and even by the CDC. Is this justifiable or simply an expression of political correctness?

 

On the issue of acceptable word usage, Black (with a capital B) seems to have replaced African American which replaced Negro before that. Since I used “black” before that word was capitalized, I will continue to do so, deriving my authority from actually having family members with “black” heritage. 


President Biden’s proposed federal budget is somewhat redistributive, since it offers more benefits to lower income folks and increases taxes on high earners. Republicans have now put up an implacable wall of opposition, after they all fell obediently in line when Trump cut taxes on those in higher income brackets. Biden is simply trying to restore some of those tax cuts and go a bit beyond to stimulate the economy. We witnessed a cliffhanger, as Congress first went down to wire on the debt ceiling. Republicans had dared to chance a shutdown by playing a game of “chicken,” willing to risk a shutdown that would have hurt both their constituents and the whole country in order to inflict harm on Biden. How did we ever get to this point? Donald Trump’s brazen partisanship, his relatively small but very hardcore support, and his continued political aspirations make it hard for Republicans to chart an independent course.  

 

Peace Corps is returning to service after the pandemic, starting right now in Belize and launching a program for the first time in Viet Nam, something Vice President Kamala Harris addressed on her visit there in August.  

Daily Beast, The Gangland Murders Forcing Israel to Its Breaking Point [This article highlights the tensions between Israel as a “Jewish state” and the inclusion of a minority of Arab citizens. As the holocaust moves into history, it becomes harder to justify citizenship and citizen identity based on religion.]

 

Larry Palmer, whom George W. Bush named as ambassador to Honduras during my Peace Corps service, has died. With his arm wrapped around me, Palmer towers over me in a photo on p. 92 of my book Triumph & Hope. He was quite tall, made even taller by a white Afro contrasting with his dark complexion. He always wore a smile. President Obama later named him ambassador simultaneously to a whole slew of Caribbean island nations: Antigua & Barbuda, Barbados, Dominica, Grenada, St. Kitts & Nevis, St. Lucia, and St. Vincent & the Grenadines, all part of my current responsibility as volunteer Caribbean Coordinator for Amnesty International USA. Here is Palmer greeting children in Barbados.


Reuters, Bahamas and Cuba intercept hundreds of Haitians at sea who were headed for U.S.

 

BBC News, Haiti polls postponed after electoral body is dissolved

 

Haitian migrants are no longer front-age news, but their travails continue. The U.S.’s Long History of Mistreating Haitian Migrants The current tragedy at the border is just the latest fallout from the U.S.’s failed policies toward Haiti. New Yorker By 

 

NY Times, Thousands of Haitians Are Being Allowed Into the U.S. But What Comes Next? [The numbers being admitted to await asylum hearings seem to be increasing after the criticism of deportations to Haiti from the Del Rio camp.]



Sun Sentinel, We don’t want you, DeSantis tells desperate Haitians trying to migrate to South Florida

 

Both Haitian and Cuban migrants seem willing to risk everything, even their lives, on the outside chance that they will be among the lucky few, like lottery winners, actually allowed to stay in the US.  

 

Miami Herald, 16 Cuban migrants found near Key West, the second landing along island chain in 2 days  The U.S. Coast Guard says well over 800 people from Cuba have been caught at sea en route to South Florida this fiscal year. That’s up from just 49 in fiscal year 2020...last week, the Coast Guard returned a total of 52 migrants to Cuba that agency crews stopped at sea in several separate incidents off the Keys.

Miami Herald, Cuban migration to South Florida shows no sign of abating as 10 more land in the Keys [Cuban boat people keep on coming to the US, despite their immediate deportation and probable sanctions after their return to Cuba. Because they keep on trying, in flimsy boats they build themselves because such boats are illegal, I wonder if perhaps some might actually be managing to evade US authorities and melt into the Cuban diaspora?]

 

Miami Herald, Cuban artist freed from jail, forced into exile. Other protesters face harsh sentences. [Hamlet Lavastida, reportedly sent to Poland]

 

Miami Herald, Anonymous benefactor buys new home for ex-Castro prisoner after she loses eviction fight [Ana Lazara Rodriguez, age 83, 19-year Cuban political prisoner, whose photo and my interview with her appear in my Confessions book, so I’m very glad she’s OK now.] 

Here she is in her new home.

 


Cuban-born singer Gloria Estefan revealed she was sexually abused at age 9 by a male relative who was also her music teacher. Sexual abuse of children, especially girls, is am all too-common childhood experience.

https://www.nbcnews.com/news/latino/gloria-estefan-reveals-was-sexually-abused-was-9-rcna2479

 

Reuters, Fire devastates Honduras' Caribbean resort island of Guanaja  Yes, I’ve been there, a beautiful place. It may have been hard to get firefighting equipment there unless it was already on the island.

 

AFP, Honduras burns 3.3 tonnes of cocaine seized from cartels

 

Gabby Petito is just one of many formerly missing women who have been murdered. Many women experience sexual or physical abuse by a man as children or adults and whenever a woman is found to have been killed, her husband or male partner is the first suspect. That doesn’t mean that her missing fiancé killed Gabby, but if and when he is found, he would be a prime suspect. And Gabby’s downplaying of the problem and taking the blame on herself when questioned by police is a tactic a woman may use to protect her abuser.

Women are much more likely to be killed by an intimate partner than by a stranger. In the US, most murdered women are killed by men and most serial killers are male. Women being killed by men occurs across cultures. Whenever a woman actually kills a man, which does occur in a minority of cases, it is often of an abuser. Sometimes, women will hire a hit man to do the deed for them. Why this gender discrepancy?

Probably male sexual aggression and violence are increased by both testosterone and cultural factors. Testosterone has been linked to aggression in animals, while castration reduces aggression in both men and male animals. So men do have inherent challenges in curbing their sexual and combative urges, which explains their disproportionate imprisonment, though testosterone does wane at older ages when men tend to become more docile. Women may fail to appreciate that male aggression is more than just a culturally supported or freely chosen behavior and may actually be something hard for men to control. However, men do need to learn strategies to manage sexual and physical aggression for their own sake and that of women and other victims. Gun proliferation also needs to seriously reduced. At the same time, serial abusers like Epstein, Weinstein, and Cosby represent a special category of calculated manipulators who used their favorable positions to entrap and abuse women, not simply men overcome by a surge of desire for a particular woman.  

 

Nighttime dreams, to the extent we can even recall them, are amazingly varied, at least in my experience, though certain themes do tend to repeat themselves. In dreamland, I often find myself somehow far away from home, trying to figure out how to get back there, something that a psychologist could probably analyze. Being in an elevator going down many floors is another recurrent theme. It is curious that dream events and other people’s words or actions in our dreams often prove surprising or even shocking to “us” when we ourselves are the source and authors of the whole scenario on an unconscious level. Most dreams quickly fade away unless we make a concerted effort to remember them before they evaporate, as by writing notes upon awakening.  

 

 

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