Saturday, March 28, 2026

Now what?

        Dear readers, if the last few postings of my blog have come out overlapped or otherwise confused, my apologies. If so, I don't know if that's a result of bugs in my own system or what. Even I myself cannot get a clear posting when I open the blog via the internet, though things look just fine when they are being posted. I probably should ask an expert to come in to take a look. I also have not been able to renew my virus scan, so that may be part of the problem.          



 Here's my younger daughter with a sign she made for the No Kings march. 



                        And here were No Kings demonstrators marching in Washington. DC. 



Yahoo News

'No Kings' protests live updates: Springsteen performs at Minneapolis rally as millions take to the streets across the U.S.

Bruce Springsteen, Bernie Sanders and Jane Fonda are at the Minneapolis rally. Tens of thousands more marched through Times Square in NYC and past the Lincoln Memorial in D.C.

Donald Trump has made sure that his name stays in the headlines. He always gets folks talking, not only here in the US, but all around the world. He may sleep a lot during the day and he often gets confused, and he also frequntly repeats or even contradicts himself. But whatever Trump says or does, then you and I will hear all about it, and so will people everywhere. One of his latest remarks is: "I don’t want a stupid person being president." Hmm.


Here's a West Virginia vista found not far from where we live now. We live in such a beautiful region.



Regarding the daffodils found growing along the roadside, as shown in a previous post, an alert blog reader has noted: 

    "Daffodils grow from bulbs, not seeds so it’s intriguing to find them in uninhabited places."

                                         Someone must have planted the bulbs there years ago. 


Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth’s highly unusual decision to remove officers from a one-star promotion list has spurred allegations of racial and gender bias.


Pete Hegseth, the grossly unqualified Secretary of War, whose own military service has consisted of National Guard duty and who had even ordered strikes on surrendering Caribbean boaters--an actual war crime--still has the nerve--the unmitgated gall--to bar promotions of black and female officers who have actually served in the US armed forces, served honorably. Hegseth needs to start out now beginning in boot camp and let's see how far he gets. He would probably be booted out of boot camp. 


So do we really have to wait almost 3 more years to get rid of these birdbrains and incompetents? In fact, birds are actually much smarter. 



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MassLive

New poll: Majority of Americans say US military action against Iran has gone too far


The US had no reason to attack Iran to begin with, except that Bibi Netanyahu wanted to postpone his corruption trial and thought that would be a great diversion. A very befuddled, very suggestible Donald Trump agreed and also promised to keep the plan a secret. But now with Iranian missiles falling too close to home for Israel, it's high time for a complete ceasefire on all sides. Let's just have everyone just stop attacking and killing each other for now. Then, over time, we may almost forget what the fighting was all about. That's actually what happened between the US and Vietnam. And we also need to remember that Germany, Japan, and China were once implacable foes of our country, led by evildoers beyond redemption, but no longer, though China still remains suspect. 
Simply stopping the Iran war for now, just to talk things over, is the best way to stop hostilities. To keep on attacking relentlessly just invites more retaliation. Call the talks a pause, a ceasefire, a break, or whatever, just stop the killing and keep on extending the talks until finally everyone forgets what the fighting was all about. And then everyone may also soon forget about Netanyahu and whatever he was actually accused of doing, now becoming just a footnote in the history books. 

By saying this, I don't mean to imply that Iran and its leadership are blameless or shining paragons of virtue. Iran does not elect its leaders by a completely fair and democratic system. Women there do have the right to vote and can run for office, but, in fact, few women are in leadership positions. (We can say much the same thing about the USA.) Iranian women also wear headscarves and flowing garnents covering their bodies. as is done in many Muslim countries allied with the US. 




Washington Post

March 27 (Reuters) - The U.S. military has fired over 850 Tomahawk cruise missiles in four weeks ‌of war with Iran, burning through the ‌precision weapons at a rate that has alarmed some Pentagon officials ​and prompted internal discussions about how to make more available, the Washington Post reported on Friday, citing people familiar with the matter.

If there is now a pause, then a ceasefire, it means we don't have to worry about running out of missiles.
 

                        In Iran, American and Israeli flags are still being set ablaze. 
Better to burn flags than to fight. 


AP, 
  • Two officials from Pakistan described the 15-point U.S. proposal broadly, saying it addressed sanctions relief, a rollback of Iran’s nuclear program, limits on missiles and reopening the Strait of Hormuz, through which a fifth of the world’s oil is shipped.
  • Iran issued its own plan via state TV, which includes a halt to killings of its officials, means to make sure no other war is waged against it, reparations for the war, the end of hostilities, and Iran’s “exercise of sovereignty over the Strait of Hormuz.”
The 2 sides should just continue talking about their own ceasefire plans and what each side hopes to achieve, then simply persist even longer with these talks. But in the meantime, they aren't killing each other and are no longer destroying important structures and just creating more excuses for retaliation. So the 2 sides should just keep on talking and talking, ---then start talking some more. Maybe the 2 sides will even become friends eventually, as has happened in prior wars. 


President Donald Trump has been toying with renaming one of the world’s most critical shipping routes after—who else—himself.  Speaking at an investor forum in Miami, Trump casually referred to the Strait of Hormuz as the “Strait of Trump,” before quickly correcting himself, then insisting it wasn’t actually a slip




Here's an answer to a reader's question about my views on abortion, though that has not been a prominent issue right now nor recentky discussed here.   

I believe that an individual life begins at conception. I consider that a fact. So no, I do not support abortion, which does away with (kills) that incipient life in its earliest essential stages. Contraception is fine, as egg and sperm do not then unite to form the beginning of a specific human being. Many early embryos are lost spontaneously, so the particular persons they would have become are lost. They never had a chance to live, which may be fortunate or unfortunate, depending on what sort of persons they would have become and the lives they might have led.
In Honduras, where abortion has not been permitted, unexpected pregnancies often lead to births of children who then become cherished family members. It happens all the time. People adapt to all sorts of unwanted and unanticipated events, including divorce, disability, and the loss of family members--or the arrival of a newborn they had never wanted but who then becomes a cherished family member. Look at the families of people you know or even at your own family. Any number of well-known, successful, and famous people might have had their life cut short if abortion had been more readily available. Individual lives, actual people, that's all we've got. And they all start out in the very same way. 
Nor do I support the death penalty, sometimes a hard position to argue in a specific case. Death will come to us all, but I believe everyone should have a chance to live as long as possible, even a fetus just starting out in the womb, even someone on death row--I support human life from womb to tomb. Most conceptions are often somewhat of a surprise, though rarely completely unanticipated. And certainly, every person conceived is totally unique, born with special qualities that are very unexpected in so many ways which make them just who they are. And that's how it's always been ever since time immemorial.






Thursday, March 26, 2026

Stand by me

Important book author request, pleasee, please help!!!  If anyone has a contact at Amazon or the Washington Post, with someone who can help me collect book proceeds accumulating over the years, but which I have been unable to collect because of technical issues, then please let me know. We've tried to do it every which way without success, only to be flummoxed at every turn. I am 88 years old and could certainly use that money right now. If anyone reading this has ever bought my books on-line or even printed on paper, Amazon has already gotten its cut, but I, the author, have not had any for many years. 

I am willing to go to Amazon headquarters in Alexandria, show them my ID and also print copies of the 2 books for someone there to help sort things out. I would even be quite willing to have my plight publicized in the Washington Post. (That might actually also help with sales.) So if anyone actually does help me to get that money, I am willing to offer you a cut. If you have a contact at the Post or at Amazon, please let me know ASAP. 

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Yes, I am now age 88, with 12 more years to reach 100. Do I really even want to go there? I've already lived a long life. My Dad died at 81, Moher at 92, as was mentioned previously. A few friends surviving beyond age 100 have reported it wasn't really worth it. I've already lost my younger brother, older son, and Cuban foster son. I cannot bear to lose another younger family member. Mom died after she stopped eating, but there must be easier ways to go. I wouldn't want to starve to death, or to do anything to hasten my own demise, but also not to hang on any longer than necessary. How long is that? Best just to go to sleep one night and simply not wake up. But do we really have control over how and when we might die? We have more control over how we may live. 

What do readers want for themselves at the end of life? Your comments would be welcome, as decline and death will come for us all. If you have anything to say on the subject, please contact me by email. 

But I could really use some WD-40 in my joints right now. 

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             Here I am with the cake made by some very kindly CoolFont cooks for my 88th birthday. 



So many birthday greetings in both Spanish and English have come in. Here's one in English. 


And here's one now in Spanish: Querida Bárbara hoy es tu cumpleaños y deseo felicitarte y hacerte saber que aunque pasen los años nunca me olvido de tu bondad con mi persona.
Deseo que recibas este nuevo cumpleaños con buena salud física y espiritual. Y con mi cariño.

I even got one in Catalàn.


So thanks to all for your kind birthday wishes; I am now feeling all those good vibes. 

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Flowers near our rural home have begun springing up everywhere.
Perhaps someone dropped some seeds here, as no one would have planted them on this rural roadside. Here below are even more.





West Virginia trees are also flowering everywhere today,


This very common redbud is in full bloom. 

Back in Washington, DC, my former home, it's now also
 cherry blossom time.


On a DC website, I see that a young woman intern at the Smithsonian is looking for a place to stay. When I lived on DC's Capitol Hill, many young visitors stayed with me in my 3-story home built back in 1895.  If I still lived there, I would welcome her.

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Unfortunately, today, right now, at this very moment, Donald J. Trump is still our president.



President Trump hashown he's ready for a fight. And he's not the only one in a fighting mood.

War criminal Pete Hegseth, who also likes a fightnow boasts: "We negotiate with bombs."

How can we get rid of these guys? How can we get rid especially of blatant war criminal Hegseth, whose family must have made a humongous donation to Trump, or else how did he ever get his jiob?  He has zero qualifications. 


President Trump’s disapproval rating hit its highest rating across both of his terms, according to a new Fox News poll.

The survey, released Wednesday, found that 59 percent of registered voters do not approve of Trump’s handling of the presidency, with 47 percent who say they strongly disapprove. 

Another 41 percent said the opposite, with roughly half of that number, 22 percent, saying they strongly approve of his job performance.

Daily Beast, Trump’s ICE Brag Immediately Blown Up by Scathing Poll

FROSTY RECEPTION

Donald Trump claimed that Americans think ICE officers are “nice guys,” but polls tell a different story.




Here now is an Iranian missile. 


An Iranian missile landed in a West Bank village on Tuesday. Four people were injured. This is the war now hitting too close to home for Israel. Time now for an immediate ceasefire and the start of peace negotiations. Bibi needs to be exonerated, no matter what he's accused of doing, Hundreds are still being killed on all sides just to protect him. So it's time to forgive Netanyahu for whatever he has done. 




Yahoo News

Iran launches new strikes, denies Trump's claim of 'very strong talks.' Here's what's happening on day 25 of the war. [Read more about it.]





Catholic churches across the U.S. and internationally are experiencing a surprising, sharp surge in adult converts, with many dioceses reporting 30–70% increases in 2024-2026, reaching near 20-year highs. Driven largely by young adults and Gen Z, this "revival" is occurring amid a post-COVID quest for authenticity, community, and tradition, challenging previous trends of secularization.

I can actually think of 2 reasons, one is the American pope, the other is vice president JD Vance's conversion.

I am Catholic myself. though not very observant. It all depends on the environment. When I am in Latin America, where most people are Catholic, I do attend Sunday mass with my friends. I was married in the church and my late ex-husband attended sessions intended for future spouses. My children attended Catholic schools in part and observed First Communions and Confirmations.   

 But I have not been to any church here in Berkeley Springs, 

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African wildlife is a good focus now, good for diverting us from the war.











Wash.Post, Uganda 

brings rhinos back to area where they’ve been extinct since 1983







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Although we really need to keep the migrants here, Costa Rica is also a good place for them to live. (Many already speak Spanish.)





















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My 17-year-old great-grandson, now a high school senior in Florida, excels at sports like basketball and soccer. Here he is with both his grandmother (my older daughter) and his mother displaying a trophy he was just awarded. I plan to attend his graduation ceremony in May. I also hope he won't be drafted to fight in Trump's completely unnecessary and avoidable Iran war. 


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In Spanish, I am dubbed  friolenta, that is, particularly sensitive to cold. If I were were sweating profusely in summer showing great sensitivity to heat, I would be called calorienta. And if the person so described were male, he would be called friolento or caloriento, according to his reaction to cold or heat.


Because I know Spanish, I can mostly understand Portuguese, Romanian, and Catalàn, and also can get the gist of Italian. When I was sent to Romania to evaluate rehab services there, I asked myself, "Why am I mostly understanding everything these folks are saying?" I was surprised, as I'd never expected Romanian to be a romance language. Of course, the rehab services I was checking on there were abysmal and children were being cared for in orphanages in the most dreadful of conditions--that was in Romania during the Ceaușescu era. I don't recall now who sent me there or why, only that it was a charitable organization. That was back in 1989. At the time. I was working at the Occupatioanl Therapy Association, although a former social worker and juvenile probation officer, not an OT. I later wrote about what I'd  found in Romania for our association's magazine, OT Week. However, while I was still there, there was a sudden uprising. Ceaușescu and his wife were overthrown and both were executed. It was really quite a turbulent time. Romanians were out dancing in the streets. 

Although I've never particularly looked for adventure, adventure  has always found me, often just by being in the right place at the right time, as happened in Romania. I also witnessed the fall of the Berlin Wall. Then I was in Nicaragua when Violeta Chamorro defeated Daniel Ortega, and in Honduras when the first female president took office there. Violeta died only last year at age 95, while she was living in San José, Costa Rica. I was at her home in Managua when our late former US President Jimmy Carter came in to advise her in his twangy Spanish to delay her victory announcement until the next morning to give the Sandinistas time to adjust. Now both Violeta and Jimmy Carter are gone. They would have remembered me as I certainly remember them. Some of these happenings are described in more detail in my books, if blog readers should be interested in finding out more. There are also many photos in my books, including one of me with Carter in Nicaragua. 

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"Boston marriage" was a term formerly used to describe 2 women living together in a lifelong partnership. I was born in Boston, but have never been in a romantic relationship with another woman. 




Writing this blog has become increasingly difficult. So I may ask someone to come in to try to help me correct the bugs. I will advise you if and  when that has happened. Many thanks to readers for your continued patience and understanding.