Thursday, April 9, 2026

Memories are made of this.


Seen here below is the house where I lived for more than 50 years, but then sold it to move to West Virginia where I live now with my son, turning the page to start a whole new life, beginning all over again now in my 80's. 

The following photos of my DC house were sent by daughter Steph's childhood friend, Monica, our neighbor still living right now in Washington, DC. She said, "So many great memories of time spent there over the decades. Glad Steph asked me to go by and take these for you guys. And I'm so glad now (probably didn’t appreciate it at the time) about all the photos that you took of us, Mama Joe, while we were all growing up then." 

Yes, being a single mother of 4 kids and a Cuban foster son was not easy at times, especially when I wasn't getting any child support after my (late) ex-husband and his new wife had emptied all our bank accounts, not leaving even a single penny. But we survived as a family and we enjoyed our life together, even after my ex-husband's abrupt departure and his flight to Las Vegas for a quicky divorce and marriage the same day to his second wife. We delivered phone books (which then existed) from a wagon for some ready cash. It's a rather complicated and unusual story. My husband of 22 years was totally blind and very smart, and had become quite successful with my constant help; he even won a MacArthur Award, so read all about it in my books. 

  • The following photos of my 1895 DC house show why I really miss it.  Can a house even have a personality?
                              Here I was eating in the kitchen of my beloved DC house before selling it last year.  










I sent my daughter's friend this long message about the photos she had sent of my former DC home:

Monica, thank you for the photos and for saving them for us. I've put some on my blog. Seeing these photos has brought tears to my eyes. If it can be said that we can love a house, I really did love that house, built in 1895 with its many pocket doors, 4 working fireplaces, 3 floors. and a skylight above--a house where I'd lived for more than 50 years and raised my own family there. Houses like that are no longer made. I had planned to spend my last days there, but, as daughter Steph had pointed out, the repairs, upkeep, utilities, and taxes were just more than I could still afford when I was no longer working.
 I did work part-time as a Spanish interpreter until my early 80's, as I am bilingual in Spanish, but few Spanish speakers live out here now in West Virginia. (I've even been told by native speakers that I don't have a gringo accent when speaking Spanish.) Up until June 2024, I made annual humanitarian trips to Honduras, my former Peace Corps country, always taking a new wheelchair there to donate. 
I am now age 88, having bought a much smaller, one-story brand-new house here in rural West Va. with no fireplaces whatsoever, with 2 bathrooms, and 2 or 3 bedrooms, depending on how the rooms are identified. Now son Jon and I live quite comfortably here together with our dog Willow. But we live out in the country and I do miss my DC neighbors and the convenience of public transporation and the close proximity of the Capitol, the Supreme Court, the musuems, and the displays on the mall, all with walking distance (though now I do walk rather slowly). I also really miss my neighbors--I don't know any neighbors around here and the closest ones have barking dogs always outside, so I don't dare go knock on their front door nor have they ever come over here. (Our own dog mostly stays inside.) 
I have lost my son and Cuban foster son and hope to never lose another younger famiky member before my own death. I am now age 88. I do thank you for all the memories and hope the current owners of my historic DC house will come to cherish it as much as I did. Gracias, Barbara


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 Our children are the future; they are priceless. I've learned that myself from the kids I still have as well as those I have lost. People without children don't know what they are missing. There would be no people at all without children. Without enough children being born, houses and whole towns in Asia have been left left completely empty. We even have a few empty abandoned houses right here in Berkeley Springs, but now one looks like it's being refurbished, so someone new must be moving in.

Fertility rate drops to new record low: CDC

CNN, The US fertility rate has been trending down for decades

The 2025 rate was 9% lower than it was in 2019 before the Covid-19 pandemic and about 20% lower than it was 20 years ago. So we do need those immigrants that Trump and his lackeys have been so busily deporting.    



 A total fertility rate of about 2.1 children per woman is required to keep a population stable. The US ferility rate is now only 1.6. The DC mother below has posted her photo with her 6 children, including twin girls, before they all attended Easter Sunday services together. She is an outlyer in terms of her number of offspring.


The Daily Beast

Trump, 79, Hit With Wellness Check Demands Over ‘Unhinged’ Behavior

Donald Trump seems to be losing it, displaying dementia and senile attention deficit sydrome, as was reported earlier.

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Yahoo News, Army Secretary Dan Driscoll has come out swinging following reports that Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth is itching to fire him and replace him with a close ally.

Readers already know that I consider Hegseth not only grossly unqualified for his position as a Secretary of War, a man with absolutely no military experience, but also a flagrant war criminal now blaming "the fog of war" for serious mistakes resulting in civilian deaths, not only of Caribbean boaters raising their hands in surrender, but of hundresds of little Iranian girls killed by a US missile. One can only speculate that Trump appointed him and keeps him in his position after his family made a really humongous donation (bribe?). 

VP Vance, whose wife is expecting their 4th child, has been eerily quiet, making no public comment after Trump attacked Iran.

Vice President Vance reported trying to phone Trump recently, but couldn't actually reach him.“You know I think this is a bad idea, but if you want to do it, I’ll support you,” he was quoted as telling Trump. On Tuesday, Vance found himself in an awkward position when he bragged about phoning Trump while he was onstage in Budapest, Hungary—only to get an error message from an operator. “I actually had a special guest that asked that I give him a phone call,” Vance told the crowd. “Let’s see. Let’s hope he actually answers, or this is going to be very embarrassing.” And so it was. 

Bombing Iran at this juncture is like is like plunging a stick into a hornets' nest. If Kamala had been elected, none of this ever would have happened because she is not stupid.


Hours Before News of Cease-Fire, Pope Leo XIV Issues Strong Rebuke of Trump

2 min read

The Jerusalem Post

Mojtaba Khamenei unconscious in Qom, not actually running Iran

I don't necessarily consider Iran's leaders to be "good guys," but they are certainly looking more saavy and compassionate than the trio of  Donald Trump, Hegseth, and Netanyahu, all together, comprising a pretty dreadful cabal. 

This photo obtained by CBS News shows smoke rising from the site of an Iranian drone attack that killed six U.S. service members in Kuwait on March 1, 2026.

Wash. Post, Israel kills scores in Beirut as U.S. says Lebanon is not part of Iran truce

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Wash. Post, Gilgo Beach suspect pleads guilty, admits killing 8 women over 3 decades

Rex Heuermann pleads guilty, admits to killing 8 women in Gilgo Beach serial case.

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Fortunately, among world leaders, Pope Leo actually seems pretty saavy.


                                    Here Pope Leo blesses a boy dressed as the pope. 


NY Times, Hours Before News of Cease-Fire, Pope Leo XIV Issues Strong Rebuke of Trump


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According to the New York Times, the release of Cuban political prisoners has been a priority for Secretary of State Marco Rubio, a man I once chatted with in English and Spanish on flight from Florida to DC.  However, the Cuban government has released prisoners in the past, only to re-arrest them again later when protests take place. 

The Center for a Free Cuba says that this latest prisoner release is an effort by the regime "to appease the zzTrump administration."  [This Center has always been a faithful Trump supporter.] 

As reported by
Frank Calzon
Center for a Free Cuba

 So then what exactly does zzTrump administration mean? --that Donald Trump is often asleep at the wheel while others are steering the ship of state? As mentioned earlier, Trump does seem to have senior attention deficit disorder, veering hastily from Greenland to Venezuela to Iran, now having forgotten all about Mt. Rushmore, another recent focus. Maybe he will soon forget Iran. The US unprovoked attack on Iran was like plunging a stick into a hornets' nest. Such an assault on Iran would never have been undertaken by Kamala because she is not stupid or impulsivelike that sorry trio of idiots, Trump, Hegseth, and Netanyahu. What are these guys drinking now? Are they even thinking?

JFK and RFK (whom I once met as reported earlier) appeared to be pretty smart, but RFK Jr. seems to be missing a few marbles. What can done about him?

I have mentioned before that I am friolenta, that isespecially sensitive to cold, so now I really welcome warmer weather. Calorenta would describe someone very sensitive to heat, but that is not me.






































Monday, April 6, 2026

Four more years and counting? Trump is now trying to launch World War !!!.


We've never actually met them because their fiercely barking dogs are always guarding out front, so we dare not even knock on their front door.


What sort of flower is this one, which we saw early this morning?

Below are 2 others that we didn't recognize. 


 This common wild flower is called "scotch broom."


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White House Easter Egg Roll 



Donald Trump led a chant of "Four More Years" at the White House Easter Egg Roll.



Afterwards, Trump held a news conference. Apparently his remaining term is not "Four more years!" but actually less than three.

Yes, I do hope to live to see the day when Donald Trump is gone from office, the sooner, the better. If Americans had elected Kamala, none of this would have happened. Turmp has senile dementia and his condition is getting worse by the day. He needs to be locked up right now on an emergency basis, however, of course, without his phone.



TNR

Trump Calls Biden the R-Word—Twice


President Donald Trump crassly referred to former president Joe Biden as “mentally re---ded” twice on Monday.

Who is the president with more mental challenges, Biden or Trump? 




AP

Trump widens threat to all of Iran's power plants and bridges as his deadline for a deal approaches


Are threats the best way to incentivize another country's leaders to enter into peace negotiations? It
does seem that to be effective, a carrot must be offered as well a stick. 

Iranians watch as their cities are being blown up. 

What can be done on an emergency basis to control Donald Trump? He cannot be impeached instantaneously. He needs to be locked up.

ABC News

Trump ally Sen. Ron Johnson breaks with president over Iran threats


“I am hoping and praying that President Trump … [that] this really is bluster. I do not want to see us start blowing up civilian infrastructure. I do not want to see that,” conservative Wisconsin Senator Ron Johnson said on an episode of the John Solomon Reports podcast released Monday. “We are not at war with the Iranian people. We are trying to liberate them.” 


Pentagon Pete Accused of Lying to Trump in Damning White House Leak

WAR WHISPERER

Pete Hegseth is feeding Donald Trump’s belief that the U.S. is on the verge of a decisive victory in Iran, according to a report.


Hegseth. a Secretary of War without any military experience, already has shown himself to be a war criminal by ordering atttacks on surrendering Caribbean boaters.


Yahoo News

Trump warns Iran its 'whole civilization will die tonight' without a deal. How we got here, and what could happen next.


Texas Republican Rep. Nathaniel Moran said in a post on X that he does not support "the destruction of a 'whole civilization'" -- a reference to Trump's social media post on Tuesday in which he threatened that a "whole civilization will die tonight, never to be brought back again" although he said "I don't want that to happen."

"That is not who we are, and it is not consistent with the principles that have long guided America," Moran wrote.

And Republican Sen. Lisa Murkowski, of Alaska, also rejected Trump's threat in a post on X, calling his rhetoric "an affront to the ideals our nation" that "undermines our long-standing role as a global beacon of freedom and directly endangers Americans both abroad and at home."

Their reactions came after Trump has threatened to bomb bridges and power plants, which would be devastating for Iranian civilians. Some experts have warned that such actions could violate international law; many Democrats are saying it amounts to a war crime.

Asked on Monday if he is worried attacking civilian infrastructure would break international law, Trump said "No, no I'm not."

Earlier this year, amid an investigation into a U.S. military strike in an area where an elementary school was hit and dozens of children were killed, War Secretary Pete Hegseth said that "we, of course, never target civilian targets."

Trump has said that he will target those bridges and power plants in Iran if they don't open up the critical Strait of Hormuz -- giving Iran a deadline of 8 p.m. ET Tuesday to act.

If ordered to strike, US military officers should refuse to carry out Trump's orders. The world will certainly thank them. Then both Trump and Hegseth should both be arrested and locked up untilthe end of Trump's term. 

Can JD Vance do anything? Vance has been strangely quiet through all of this. Surely he knows that Trump is wrong and is behaving erratically.  

Then as Tuesday's deadline approached, the White House said the president was considering a two-week extension proposed by Pakistan.


Bravo for Pakistan! Pakistan's leaders deserve a Nobel Prize!



India, the world's most populous nation, now surpassing China, plans to undertake a full and detailed census of its 1.4 billion people. 







The message below just came from my friend Sonam in Bhutan.


Hi aunty, 
Good to hear from you, my mum, 89 years old, passed away a week back. We are performing her burial rituals.
I think you should stay with your kids. At this age someone should be there for you. 
Thank you aunty, wish I could meet you once again 
Fondly, Sonam Yangchen

I sent her my condolences. Her mother was only one year older than I am now.





I don't recall what this piece of furniture seen below is used for, but apparently it is on display in a DAR Museum and was made by slaves. 
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Perhaps the US first strike on Iran, done without any apparent provocation, was due to more than just Netanyahu's effort to delay his corruption trial. At least, that is what the commentator below suggests. 
I am not sure that his final conclusion is merited by his arguments, namely that " 'The Jews' did not con Trump into it." It does seem that Israelis and Jews do have an outside influence on US foreign policy, far beyond their actual numbers, including indeed in this particular instance, at least according to the evidence this author himself cites. Did any American advisers urge a first strike on Iran? Apparently none actually did. According to reports, Netanyahu urged Trump to strike Iran and kill the Ayatolla despite no provocations from Iran and to keep it a secret--and Trump did just that, starting the war with Iran for no reason at all. 

Edward McCarthy <ecmccar@gmail.com>: 

A correspondent wonders whether the fact that Jared Kushner and Steve
Witkoff are Jewish contributed to the decision to launch the assault on
Iran. They were negotiating with the Iranians when the attack occurred,
and apparently told the President that things were not going well. We can
probably assume that like most American Jews past a certain age, Witkoff
and Kushner feel an affinity for and commitment to the State of Israel.
But that this amounts to participation in some deep-laid Jewish plot goes
well beyond the provable. The criticism of their role has to do with
something else. It is that the negotiations they engaged in lacked, as
former key diplomat Nicholas Burns has suggested, adequate participation by
suitably experienced career State Department personnel. As Burns said, no
one in the negotiations even spoke or understood Farsi, the Iranians’
language. Perhaps, after all, the two real estate dealers did not have all
that was needed for a sound basis on which to arrive at their conclusions.
 
This is not to say that Jewish influence played no part in Trump’s decision
to join with Israel in going after Iran. It’s a safe bet that Bibi
Netanyahu and the Israeli Military made substantial input. It is not
necessary to conjure up a broad Jewish conspiracy to conclude that
Netanyahu, who is as much a fanatic as are the right wing members of his
Government, got his heart’s desire when the US joined with Israel to
destroy Iran’s missile and other offensive capabilities. That however does
not mean that Donald Trump was conned by Bibi into engaging in the war.
The suggestion that Trump saw the chance for a swift and easy victory, with
great credit gained for bringing down an indeed evil regime had more to do
with his decision to go to war than did anyone else’s input. With Trump,
it’s all about The Donald. He and other Republicans may also have seen a
possibility of winning over Jewish votes and money but that, again, does
not lead to Jewish influence as a primary factor.
 
More broadly, our historical entanglement with Israel, the work of both
Parties, cannot be dismissed as irrelevant. In a recent NY Times column,
Michelle Goldberg wrote that Jews and Israel did not cause George W. Bush
to enter into the Iraq War on the false ground that Saddam Hussein had
weapons of mass destruction. True enough. But was it entirely irrelevant
that at the time Richard Perle was head of a Defense Policy Board in the
Pentagon, and that Paul Wolfowitz, Douglas Feith and Elliott Abrams were in
other high positions in DoD? Feith in particular was accused as a
principal architect of the false narrative of Saddam Hussein’s supposed
weapons of mass destruction. All of these Jewish “Neo-Conservaties” had
substantial ties to the Israeli Government at the time. Let’s say maybe
their high placement could not have hurt, even if it did not amount to a
broad Jewish conspiracy manipulating the American Government. The last is
well beyond the evidence, and it would be well to recognize that John
Bolton and other non-Jewish “Neocons” were, and still are, enthusiastic
about going after Iran militarily. We do not know all that goes into
decisions to go to war but they are more complex than would allow
attributing them to a conspiracy theory, Jewish or other. Boneheaded the
current war choice may be, but the Jews did not con Trump into it.
 
A correspondent wonders whether the fact that Jared Kushner and Steve
Witkoff are Jewish contributed to the decision to launch the assault on
Iran. They were negotiating with the Iranians when the attack occurred,
and apparently told the President that things were not going well. We can
probably assume that like most American Jews past a certain age, they feel
an affinity for and commitment to the State of Israel. But that this
amounts to participation in some deep-laid Jewish plot goes well beyond the
provable. The criticism of their role has to do with something else. It
is that the negotiations they apparently concluded were not productive,
lacked, as former key diplomat Nicholas Burns has suggested, adequate
participation by suitably experienced career State Department personnel.
As Burns said, no one in the negotiations even spoke or understood Farsi,
the Iranians’ language. Perhaps, after all, the two real estate dealers
did not have all that was needed for a sound basis on which to arrive at
their conclusions.
 
This is not to say that Jewish influence played no part in Trump’s decision
to join with Israel in going after Iran. It’s a safe bet that Bibi
Netanyahu and the Israeli Military made substantial input. It is not
necessary to conjure up a broad Jewish conspiracy to conclude that
Netanyahu, who is as much a fanatic as are the right wing members of his
Government, got his heart’s desire when the US joined with Israel to
destroy Iran’s missile and other offensive capabilities. That however does
not mean that Donald Trump was conned by Bibi into engaging in the war.
The suggestion that Trump saw the chance for a swift and easy victory, with
great credit gained for bringing down an indeed evil regime had more to do
with his decision to go to war than did anyone else’s input. With Trump,
it’s all about The Donald. He and other Republicans may also have seen a
possibility of winning over Jewish votes and money but that, again, does
not lead to Jewish influence as a primary factor.
 
More broadly, our historical entanglement with Israel, the work of both
Parties, cannot be dismissed as irrelevant. In a recent NY Times column,
Michelle Goldberg wrote that Jews and Israel did not cause George W. Bush
to enter into the Iraq War on the false ground that Saddam Hussein had
weapons of mass destruction. True enough. But was it entirely irrelevant
that at the time Richard Perle was head of a Defense Policy Board in the
Pentagon, and that Paul Wolfowitz, Douglas Feith and Elliott Abrams were in
other high positions in DoD? Feith in particular was accused as a
principal architect of the false narrative of Saddam Hussein’s supposed
weapons of mass destruction. All of these Jewish “Neo-Conservaties” had
substantial ties to the Israeli Government at the time. Let’s say maybe
their high placement could not have hurt, even if it did not amount to a
broad Jewish conspiracy manipulating the American Government. The last is
well beyond the evidence, and it would be well to recognize that John
Bolton and other non-Jewish “Neocons” were, and still are, enthusiastic
about going after Iran militarily. We do not know all that goes into
decisions to go to war but they are more complex than would allow
attributing them to a conspiracy theory, Jewish or other. Boneheaded the
current war choice may be, and Israel may be the only party clearly
benefiting from it, but "The Jews" did not con Trump into it.