Sunday, October 22, 2023

Wins and Losses, War and Peace

After a long absence from my son’s place in W. Va. because of the fallout from my bank fraud and sheer lack of funds, I was back for the Berkeley Springs’ traditional fall Apple Butter festival, live and in person there once again with tastings, displays, and country music. Folks congregated joyfully, most not wearing masks.

The week I spent there was a nice respite from both the city and world news. My son works at the local CoolFont Hotel’s front desk, mostly from 4pm until midnight. During the day, we drove all over W. Va. through forests and small towns, stopping at an outlook where the Potomac River starts out as just a stream where 3 states come together: Virginia, W. Va., and Maryland.

Blissfully cut off from the outside world, I stayed alone most evenings out in the woods at my son’s house, with no phone, internet, radio, or TV, hearing deer or other animals come on the front porch while my son was away. His rented house is surrounded by oak and maple trees, thousands of them, probably millions, whose green leaves turned to yellow and orange overnight. There all by myself, I delved into back issues of the New Yorker saved by a friend, after which I passed them on to patrons of the local library. I was unaware of developments in the wider world, nothing of what was happening beyond a few-miles’ radius, including in Gaza, Israel, or anywhere else.

Where would we be now in October without pumpkins? The owner of a Minnesota pumpkin named Michael Jordon has won $30,000 for a pumpkin weighing 2,749 lbs., a record size. 

                When I returned to DC, homes were already being decked out for Halloween. 

In Mexico, Santa Muerte’s feast day has already passed, a worship condemned by both the Catholic church and Mexican authorities. Now considered the patron of Mexican sex workers, "Saint Death" is part of a cult going back centuries to indigenous times.

Wash. Post, Amid GOP confusion, U.S. braces for 'first-ever shutdown about nothing' What are the Republican demands for opening up the government? Not even faithful party members seem to be able to say.
In a surprise last-minute about-face, Republican House Speaker Kevin McCarthy pulled back from the brink, reaching across the aisle to keep the government open for at least the next 45 days. He knew Republicans would have been blamed for the shutdown. This was a rare example of bipartisanship in today’s deeply divided government.

AP, Government shutdown threat eases after House passes a temporary funding plan, sending it to Senate  The threat of a federal government shutdown was suddenly easing Saturday after the House quickly approved a temporary funding bill to keep agencies open, once Speaker Kevin McCarthy dropped demands for steep spending cuts and relied on Democratic votes for passage. The rushed package would leave behind aid to Ukraine, a White House priority opposed by a growing number of GOP lawmakers, but increase federal disaster assistance by $16 billion, meeting President Joe Biden’s full request. The bill would fund government until Nov. 17. It goes next to the Senate, which was meeting late in the evening, hours to go before the midnight deadline to fund the government. “We’re going to do our job,” McCarthy said before the House vote. “We’re going to be adults in the room. And we’re going to keep government open.”

USA Today, Matt Gaetz announces plans to oust Kevin McCarthy from House speakership A challenge to McCarthy’s leadership was inevitable. Where would we all be without challenges? Life could get pretty boring. But now Gaetz has backed down on seeking McCarthy’s position. Maybe he just didn’t have the votes? Rep. Steve Scalise after multiple efforts has now also backed down.

Donald Trump declared himself in favor of Jim Jordan, who also failed to garner enough votes. In fact, no Republican House member seems to have the votes to become speaker now, even after a majority finally approved McCarthy’s ouster.

Trump’s acolytes don’t seem overly concerned that his own speaker choice failed. They remain faithful, no matter what. Trumpsters may vicariously revel in his freedom to be insulting, to lie, steal, cheat, and flaunt social norms without suffering any consequences while imagining doing the same themselves.

Still other supporters idolize Donald Trump as a faithful Christian who upholds their most cherished values.

Ft. Worth Star Telegram, Yes, Republicans see Donald Trump as a man of faith. But tere’s more to the story | Opinion

Poll Finds More Republicans View Trump as a Person of Faith Than Pence or Romney.” Never mind that Trump almost never attends church or prays.

Is it just my wishful thinking, or is Trump’s star finally fading? It certainly seems so, as other than his core of faithful supporters, no one else is actually joining his team. Even Melania seems to have checked out and Ivanka is nowhere to be seen.

Biden also appears to lack enthusiastic voter support. New entries in the presidential race might gain more traction, but seem unable to gain support..

Wash. Post, Trump faults Netanyahu, calls Hezbollah ‘very smart’ amid Israel war You know, Hezbollah is very smart,” Trump said. “They’re all very smart.

Netanyahu and Israel certainly have their critics, but Hezbollah is not really “very smart,” as Trump has alleged. The war that Hezbollah started will end with a demise of its influence in Gaza after Israel’s scorched-earth campaign of collective punishment inflicts death and injury on so many innocent Palestinians. Israel is now out for blood and vengeance, out for an eye for an eye or even more, after this surprise humiliation and the shattering of its image of invincibility, long maintained with massive US support. Since his initial remarks about Hezbollah, Trump has declared, “We stand with Israel.”

Telegraph, Netanyahu is to blame for Hamas war, say four out of five Israelis

Netanyahu is blamed by Israelis for not pursuing the 2-state solution which might have prevented the attack. (Let’s hope Netanyahu gets jettisoned now.)

All northern Gazan civilians could not possibly evacuate in 24 hours as per Israel’s original orders. Climate activist Greta Thunberg has now faced backlash for her support for Gaza’s inhabitants. There are no winners in this conflict. Israel has been gradually losing the goodwill it first enjoyed after its founding in 1948. Israeli officials had hoped more Muslim nations would soon establish diplomatic relations, but the Hamas attack has derailed those efforts. Can Israel eventually live in peace surrounded by a Muslim world? Perhaps, but it will take more time, especially now after this major setback. And Israel must halt its wholesale revenge attacks on Palestinians, though civilians may well support the attackers and are the very population from which the attackers emerged. Israel also shares blame for the attacks which did not come out of the blue unprovoked. The 2-state solution should not be abandoned and Netanyahu must go once and for all.

East Germany and western Europe did reconcile eventually, but it took years and happened only after the dramatic fall of the Berlin Wall. I had visited East Germany back in 1958 before the wall had even been constructed, going there by underground train with a young West Berliner. We even saw a newsreel in an east Berlin cinema showing Walter Ulbricht giving a rousing patriotic speech. Ulbricht went on to serve in various GDR positions until his death in 1973. Germany is now the mainstay of western Europe and a staunch US ally. Likewise, Japan reconciled with the West. But peace between Israel and Palestine is hard to envision right now.

After my return, 2 little neighborhood girls rang my bell to leave red flowers with a note: “dear Miss BarBra we are giving you some flowers we hope you enjoy them. Love Cate and Ilsa”.
Laura, a cousin living in California, tells me she has been totally cut off from her younger family members out in Utah who joined the Mormon church. They even refused to attend her older sister’s funeral for not being a church member. Their parents were not Mormons, but the younger children of their large family converted and still remain estranged from both me and her. Laura had attended my mother’s 90th birthday in Virginia in 2013, which is the last time I’ve actually seen her. She says her brother “seems to be the older Mormon patriarch who has told some of the younger generation to not contact us. The family split early on, when even my parents could not attend an offspring’s wedding being held in the temple.”

A couple now living in Florida just sent me a message. The husband, whom I brought here from Cuba via Mexico many years ago, married a woman from Nicaragua. Because of recent immigration authorizations, they have been able to welcome new arrivals from both countries.

Ya llegaron mis dos amigos Cubanos que pedí y también todos los familiares que Blanquita, mi esposa, pidió. Todos llegaron muy bien y contentos de estar aquí, y ahora están en el proceso de esperar los permisos de trabajo, aprender a manejar, y de conocer la Ciudad. Así que estamos bien ocupados y con la casa llena.

 

Wash. Post, Some coma patients may be conscious. New research could identify them.

Some brain injury patients may appear to be in a coma, but they are not. They are processing at least some of what is happening around them but cannot physically respond. Without a physical response, a physician might assume that a patient hasn't understood, said Sudhin Shah, a neuroscientist at Weill Cornell Medicine in New York City. And, she said, referring to the patient, "Unfortunately, it could be that you were processing, you were understanding, you were wanting to talk to me. You just can't."

I’ve already mentioned on these pages that my granddaughter’s step-mother, living nearby, remains unresponsive, fed by a stomach feeding tube for 2 years now. But perhaps she is more aware than her family realizes. How would they even know

Guns continue to be the number one killer of American children and teens. Why do folks persist on keeping a personal firearm as protection? Is it because of promotion by gun sellers and manufacturers?

Daily Beast, Pastor’s Toddler Shot in Head by Brother Outside Church: Report A boy found a gun in a car parked outside the church and shot his brother.


In a common feedback loop, is Taylor Swift simply famous for being famous? She is riding the wave as long as it lasts.

After a friend living in another state commiserated about my bank fraud, I replied:

Thanks, I'm still trying to recover funds--yes it has been quite stressful. The bank has not gone back more than a few weeks to try to recover stolen funds. I’m asking them to go further and to ask merchants to voluntarily refund bogus charges made on my debit account.  A woman unknown to me must have seen the debit card number on a check that passed her way. Since then, I've changed my account and avoid writing checks. I had previously used the debit card only to make withdrawals and deposits at the branch and the bank would always send me copies of cancelled checks, but not of other debit activity. Now I am getting a monthly printout of everything. 

 

Wash. Post, Amid GOP confusion, U.S. braces for 'first-ever shutdown about nothing' What are the Republican demands for opening up the government? Not even faithful party members seem to be able to say.

In a surprise last-minute about-face, Republican House Speaker Kevin McCarthy pulled back from the  brink, reaching across the aisle to keep the government open for at least the next 45 days. He knew Republicans would have been blamed for the shutdown. This was a rare example of bipartisanship in today’s deeply divided government.


AP, Government shutdown threat eases after House passes a temporary funding plan, sending it to Senate  The threat of a federal government shutdown was suddenly easing Saturday after the House quickly approved a temporary funding bill to keep agencies open, once Speaker Kevin McCarthy dropped demands for steep spending cuts and relied on Democratic votes for passage. The rushed package would leave behind aid to Ukraine, a White House priority opposed by a growing number of GOP lawmakers, but increase federal disaster assistance by $16 billion, meeting President Joe Biden’s full request. The bill would fund government until Nov. 17. It goes next to the Senate, which was meeting late in the evening, hours to go before the midnight deadline to fund the government. “We’re going to do our job,” McCarthy said before the House vote. “We’re going to be adults in the room. And we’re going to keep government open.”

USA Today, Matt Gaetz announces plans to oust Kevin McCarthy from House speakership A challenge to McCarthy’s leadership was inevitable. Where would we all be without challenges? Life could get pretty boring. But now Gaetz has backed down on seeking McCarthy’s position. Maybe he just didn’t have the votes? Rep. Steve Scalise after multiple efforts has now also backed down.

Donald Trump declared himself in favor of Jim Jordan, who also failed to garner enough votes. In fact, no Republican House member seems to have the votes to become speaker now, even after a majority finally approved McCarthy’s ouster.

Trump’s acolytes don’t seem overly concerned that his speaker choice failed. They remain faithful, no matter what. Trumpsters may vicariously revel in his freedom to be insulting, to lie, steal, cheat, and flaunt social norms without suffering any of the usual consequences while imagining doing the same themselves.

Still other supporters idolize Donald Trump as a faithful Christian who upholds their most cherished values. (See next.)

Ft. Worth Star Telegram, Yes, Republicans see Donald Trump as a man of faith. But there’s more to the story | Opinion

Poll Finds More Republicans View Trump as a Person of Faith Than Pence or Romney.” Never mind that Trump almost never attends church or prays.

Is it just my wishful thinking, or is Trump’s star finally fading? It certainly seems so, as other than his core of faithful supporters, no one else is actually getting on board. Even Melania seems to have checked out and Ivanka is nowhere to be seen.

Biden also appears to lack enthusiastic voter support. New faces could gain more traction, but they cannot seem to get a foothold (excuse the mixed metaphor).

Wash. Post, Trump faults Netanyahu, calls Hezbollah ‘very smart’ amid Israel war “You know, Hezbollah is very smart,” Trump said. “They’re all very smart.

Netanyahu and Israel certainly have their critics, but Hezbollah is not really “very smart,” as Trump has alleged. The war Hezbollah started will end with a demise of its influence in Gaza after Israel’s scorched-earth campaign of collective punishment inflicts death and injury on so many innocent Palestinians. Israel is now out for blood and vengeance, an eye for an eye or even more, after this surprise humiliation and the shattering of its image of invincibility, long maintained with massive US support. Since his initial remarks about Hezbollah, Trump has declared, “We stand with Israel.”

Telegraph, Netanyahu is to blame for Hamas war, say four out of five Israelis

Netanyahu is blamed by Israelis for not pursuing the 2-state solution which might have prevented the attack. (Let’s hope Netanyahu is jettisoned once and for all.)

All northern Gazan civilians could not possibly evacuate in 24 hours as per Israel’s original orders. Climate activist Greta Thunberg has now faced backlash for her support for Gaza’s inhabitants. There are no winners in this conflict. Israel has been gradually losing the goodwill it first enjoyed after its founding in 1948. Israeli officials had hoped more Musim nations would soon establish diplomatic relations, but the Hamas attack has derailed those efforts. Can Israel eventually live in peace surrounded by a Musim world? Perhaps, but it will take more time, especially now after this major setback. And Israel must halt its revenge attacks on Palestinians, even though civilians may support the attackers and are the population from which the attackers emerged. Israel shares blame for the attacks which did not come out of the blue unprovoked. The 2-state solution should not be abandoned and Netanyahu must go.

East Germany and western Europe did reconcile eventually, but it took years and happened only after the dramatic fall of the Berlin Wall. I had visited East Germany back in 1958 before the wall had even been constructed, going there with a young West Berliner by underground train and even saw a newsreel in an east Berlin cinema showing Walter Ulbricht giving a rousing patriotic speech. Ulbricht went on to serve in various GDR positions until his death in 1973. Germany is now the mainstay of western Europe and a staunch US ally. Likewise, Japan reconciled with the West. But peace between Israel and Palestine is hard to envision right now.


Wikipedia: The total blockade of Gaza was announced on 9 October 2023 by the Defence Minister of IsraelYoav Gallant. “We are putting a complete siege on Gaza … No electricity, no food, no water, no gas – it’s all closed” he announced. "We are fighting human animals and we are acting accordingly," he added. The spokesman for the Minister of Energy of IsraelIsrael Katz, said that Katz had ordered the water supply to Gaza to be cut, effective immediately.

Business Insider, Doctors Without Borders in Gaza says 100% of the patients it has treated in the past 24 hours have been children

 

Huff Post, Ocasio-Cortez Slams Israel For Cutting Gaza's Power And Water Supply

Yes, Israel in its unfettered zeal for payback is going far beyond military necessity, seeking to totally wipe Gaza off the map. Israel has lost much of the worldwide support it may have enjoyed when first attacked. Israeli authorities, angry and humiliated at being caught off-guard, have vowed to destroy Hamas but also seem bent on destroying the Palestinian people. And how can the 2 be separated, as Hamas has surged from among the people? Hostages, like 2 recently released Americans, may be serving as human shields for Hamas.

Wash. Post, Have war crimes been committed in Israel and Gaza?

(War itself should be considered a crime.)

NYTimes, Gaza Border Remains Closed for Aid: Water and Food Shortages Worsen Israel had denied the entry of humanitarian assistance into Gaza. However, after Biden’s intervention, Israel has now agreed to allow limited aid to come in via Egypt.

NYTimes, The US Should Think Twice About Israel’s Plans for Gaza

“There needs to be a path to a Palestinian state,” Biden has said.

Human Rights Watch, A Threshold Crossed: Israeli Authorities and the Crimes Against Humanity

Amnesty International's Crisis Evidence Lab verified that Israeli military units striking Gaza have been equipped with white phosphorus artillery, a forbidden weapon. “We are investigating what appears to be the use of white phosphorus in Gaza, including in a strike near a hotel on the beach in Gaza City.”

Yahoo News, Israel-Hamas war live updates: Hamas-run Gaza health ministry says 500 killed in Israeli airstrike on hospital

Israel denies having hit the hospital, though exactly what happened there remains uncertain. Could a Hamas rocket intercepted by Israel possibly have exploded over the hospital; if so, who is at fault? Israel must immediately cease bombardment of civilian targets and de-escalate the conflict to maintain international sympathy and support.

 

Telegraph, Gaza hospital explosion likely caused by missile fired from Palestine, analysts claim President Biden has asked for an investigation. A rocket fired by Palestinian militants may actually have been intercepted by Israel, as suggested above, causing the explosion, but that’s just my guess.

 

Telegraph, Hamas chief killed in Gaza airstrike

 

Information and misinformation abound. A video purporting to show Palestinian terrorists holding Israeli babies in cages has been declared a fake. Palestine’s neighbors are said to have refused to take in any refugees, which may actually be true. Palestinians have harbored understandable grievances against Israel for over a generation, ever since partition, so Hamas’s actions have not simply come “out of the blue.” Rumors have been circulating with emotions running high on all sides. Collateral fallout  from the Gaza/Israel war has included murders of Jews and Muslims in the US and elsewhere. If Biden is able to calm things down, he certainly deserves kudos.


The conflict has even been manifested here in DC. Fox News, Dozens arrested outside White House during protest over Israel-Hamas war The "Day of Action for Palestine" event drew more than 10,000 pro-Palestinian protesters to Washington, D.C., on Saturday [Oct, 14], according to the American Muslims for Palestine. 


Guardian, Hundreds arrested as US Jews protest against Israel’s Gaza assault Not all American Jews are on board with Israel’s counteroffensive.

 

Two American hostages, a mother and daughter, have been released by Hamas, a welcome development. Hostages held by Hamas may serve as human shields.

While the Israel-Palestine conflict has now taken over the world’s center stage, another war has been largely pushed aside.


NYTimes, Putin’s Next Target: U.S. Support for Ukraine, Officials Say

U.S. officials said they are convinced that Putin intends to try to end U.S. and European support for Ukraine by using his spy agencies to push propaganda supporting pro-Russian political parties and by stoking conspiracy theories with new technologies. The Russia disinformation aims to increase support for candidates opposing Ukraine aid with the ultimate goal of stopping international military assistance to Ukraine. Russia has been frustrated that the United States and Europe have largely remained united on continued military and economic support for Ukraine, U.S. officials said. That military aid has kept Ukraine in the fight, put Russia’s original goals of taking Kyiv, the capital, and Odesa out of reach and even halted its more modest objective to control all of the Donbas region, in eastern Ukraine. But Putin believes he can influence American politics to weaken support for Ukraine and potentially restore his battlefield advantage, U.S. officials said.

Putin’s tactic does seem to be working. Support for Ukraine is softening

 

The Guardian, Australia rejects proposal to recognise Aboriginal people in constitution

There is an eight-year gap in life expectancy for Indigenous Australians compared with non-Indigenous Australians, a suicide rate twice the national average, and comparatively poorer outcomes for health, education and infant mortality.

While such an advisory body could have been created through legislation, the proposal was designed to enshrine its existence in the constitution so it could not be removed by future governments. The effort has failed to the considerable shock and disappointment of Australia’s indigenous citizens.

 

An Ecuadoran-born friend describes Noboa as an intelligent, good man, and hopefully will be able to accomplish his mission in the short time he has left (18 months), and then be re-elected to another full term. Let’s hope he is able to get rid of the corruption that has taken over and that Lasso was unfortunately not able to fight. The problem is the left leaning parliament. Time will tell…”

 

For those living in warmer climes in Latin America, Africa, India, and southeast Asia, malaria still remains a scourge. A fairly effective malaria vaccine has now been developed, though the disease may actually mutate much like the flu or the common cold. I’ve had malaria several times myself despite taking anti-malaria prophylactics, which, however, probably did reduce my symptoms. Malaria can be deadly, especially for children, so an effective vaccine would save many lives. Years ago, the daughter of a work colleague died of malaria during an assignment in Africa. Female mosquitos transmitting malaria as well as other potentially fatal diseases like dengue are more than just a nuisance in many parts of the world. Yet they are also part of an ecosystem providing food for larger insects, birds, fish, and frogs.

A life-threatening insect found only in the Americas is the Kissing Bug, Triatominae, a frequent carrier of Chagas, a slow-moving disease that eventually attacks the heart, resulting in death. Active at night, this bug may fall on an unaware sleeper to feed on their blood. Both male and female kissing bugs drink blood and may thus transmit the fatal illness. Only immediate treatment, if the victim even notices the bite, can forestall disease progression. When staying in Latin America, especially in rural areas, I’ve always been alert for Chagas.


A  Dominican-born friend protesting the deportation to Haiti of children of Haitian descent born in the DR sent this photo. He does not object to making his name and position public, in fact, he wants to reach a wider audience. Dominican authorities argue that their country simply does not recognize birth-right citizenship.

Les comparto esta imagen del rostro de nuestros niños "enjaulados", de una manera indigna para ser repatriados hacia Haiti, un país que, en muchos casos, estos niños no conocen, porque no nacieron alli. La actitud recurrente de las autoridades de Migración de la República Dominicana lacera la Constitución dominicana, pero además, Pactos Internacionales importantes de las cuales la RD es signataria (Art 8, 9, 29, Unicef, etc.--no cuento con el tiempo para indagar a profundidad una serie de recursos o instrumentos internacionales).

Este hecho inaceptable se sigue repitiendo frecuentemente a la luz del sol, sin que el Gobierno se inmute. 

De todos modos, dejo en sus manos la posibilidad de otras ideas o medidas a tomar.

Afectos, Pedro Cuevas

Hello friends, 

I share with you this image of the face of our children "caged," in an undignified way, to be repatriated to Haiti, a country that, in many cases, these children do not know because they were not born there. The recurring attitude of the Immigration authorities of the Dominican Republic undermines the Dominican Constitution, but in addition, important International Pacts of which the DR is a signatory (Art 8, 9, 29, Unicef, etc.--I do not have the time to investigate in depth a series of resources or international instruments). 

This unacceptable fact continues to be repeated frequently in the sun's light without the Government batting an eyelid. In any case, I leave the possibility of other ideas or measures to take into your hands. 

Affections, Pedro Cuevas


NPR, Honduras establishes ties with China after break from Taiwan

Wash. Post, Honduras embraces China, and the U.S. wrings its hands

Taiwan has lost one of its remaining supporters in Latin America. 

Business Insider, Russia is luring Cubans to Ukraine with fast-tracked citizenship and a lucrative signing bonus: 'Almost all of our friends have gone'

Now for more news closer to home:

Wash. Post, More than 75,000 Kaiser Permanente workers prepare for three-day strike Just when I’d made an appointment there for both a Covid booster and a flu shot, a strike was called. But I still got my shots, as those giving them were not the workers out on strike.

Wash. Post, Kaiser Permanente reaches tentative contract with unions Now that the strike has been settled, will our Kaiser fees go up?

While mailing a letter recently at the mail box at 7th & Independence Ave. SE, I noted that the sliding metal chute, previously coated with a sticky substance, has now been replaced by a narrow slot designed to thwart mail thieves.

Millions of monarch butterflies after feasting on milkweed, fly thousands of miles from the US to Mexico to hibernate and mate there. Then the males die and the females fly back to lay their eggs up north before dying themselves. Why make such a long journey? Maybe only the monarchs know why. 

NYTimes, To Save Monarch Butterflies, They Had to Silence the Lawn Mowers, An unlikely group of New Yorkers is winning small victories in the battle to protect butterfly habitats.

Wash. Post, In over 15 states, schools can still paddle students as punishment

Because my own mother spanked me with a hairbrush on occasion when I was still a small child, I vowed never to use corporal punishment on own kids if I ever had any. I kept to that vow as a mother of 4, with the exception of a single slap on the face of my younger son, who kept getting up out of the time-out chair used as an alternative sanction, something he says he doesn’t even remember. It's shocking that some schools still use a wooden paddle on students.

I’ve mentioned before that my younger sister and her family living in Philadelphia reject all internet connections and have a hard-copy of the Philadelphia Inquirer delivered daily to their front door. I stay in touch with my sister via old-fashioned snail mail and phone calls. Of course, I myself rely on the internet to make these blog postings and to keep in touch with friends all over the world. But I do recall the days when we used to wait anxiously for air mail letters which sometimes never arrived. I was once astounded when a US $5 bill arrived intact from the husband in Zimbabwe of a woman arrested here on drug charges and which I duly took to her in prison. Thanks to the internet, money can be sent instantaneously. 

The internet also allow folks with rather rare opinions, habits, and inclinations to find kindred souls. This has facilitated the solidification of transgender identities as the initially curious now seek out others for support and information about actual surgeries and hormonal changes, then bond together, whereas previously, only cross dressing was possible, done by individuals alone and in private. Now those with relatively uncommon inclinations are connecting with and incentivizing each other.

Also, for the first time in human history going back untold millennia, the biological connection between heterosexual relations and the birth of children has been severed. As mentioned previously, DINKS (dual income no kids couples) are a growing and outspoken segment of the US population. Not only can conception now be prevented, but a pregnancy already underway can be halted. Individual choice has become highly valued in our country and elsewhere. With “choice” now in ascendance, a “child-free” life is increasingly being promoted.

Whatever path is being pursued, individuals usually elevate and justify their own choices, both in dress and physical appearance as well as in how they live, deciding to marry or divorce or neither, to have kids or not, to accept or quit a job, and to live anywhere at all. Whatever I do is my own sacred and unique personal choice.

In the US and many western nations, as well as in China, South Korea, and Japan, because of so many individual choices to avoid having children, over population there is no longer a threat. Instead, many national birthrates overall have fallen short of full replacement, resulting in a top-heavy older population. I myself am part of that top-heavy cohort here in the US, but too late for me to contribute any more to the next generation. We oldsters are also living longer.

According to a Boston University study, about one in every 5,000 Americans today is a centenarian—that is, someone age 100 or more—and about 85% of them are women. As mentioned before, females are born with longer Telomeres than males, protecting their chromosomes from birth, a key factor in women’s longevity.

If not seriously ill or disabled, I wouldn’t mind living to age 100 myself, provided that none of my other kids or grandkids happens to die before me. I’ve already paid my dues twice-over on that score with both my older son Andrew and my Cuban foster son Alex. According to an online calculator, the average American woman my age can expect to live 7 more years to age 92, exactly how long my mother lived (Dad died at 82). From my own vantage point of today, that doesn’t seem quite long enough!

Many folks cite love of travel as their main reason for remaining childless. However, as a single mother myself, I’ve shown that it’s possible to travel with children to expose them to the wider world, thereby enriching the parent’s travel experiences as well. And how can we even measure children’s very existence versus the value of solo travel experiences? Children are human beings, priceless beyond measure. Like everyone else, a child is just someone like you or me going through an essential stage of life and human development. I’ve never considered my children and grandchildren to be a burden but actually a blessing thanks to their very existence. Live people first need to be born and raised as babies and children to carry on a culture and the human race itself. Adult citizens don’t simply emerge full-grown from the ether. Nonetheless, the “child-free” movement is now having a moment. It also must be acknowledged that not everyone is an adequate parent nor is every offspring a joy to parents and society.

Perhaps in backlash to the ever-greater emphasis on unfettered individual choice, the pro-life movement has now gained a measure of renewed strength and has come up with a novel slogan: “Choice is before the panties slide off.” The end of Roe in the US and the resurgence of prolife forces may also represent a wider societal response to a falling birthrate. But pro-life folks, as well as supporters of traditional heterosexual marriage and of limiting women’s sports to those born female, all of which I support, are still being pronounced retrograde by self-identified progressives.

Double Dutch below by artist Phyllis Stephens


Below is a Mark Rothko painting from 1955; if he were not already famous, would this artwork be considered so valuable? How did he get to become so famous to begin with? 


Now that I‘ve successfully blocked most spam calls, will they come again back using new numbers? We'll see. 

Here are some posts that caught my attention recently.

1 de cada 8 personas ha trabajado en McDonald’s. Eso es un montón de gente.

 

From St. Jude, along with a little boy’s name: Tu donación lo ayuda a vivir. 


                                These cats, all lost locally, are being fed by a good Samaritan.  



                                        You'd surely notice this missing pup if you happened to find her.