Sunday, September 12, 2021

Dearly Departed, 9/11, Friends the World Over, Migrant Caravan, South Sudan Revisited, Journey or Destination?

Now that I’ve reached a certain age, sometimes email correspondence with a distant friend about my own age comes to halt and never resumes. If I have their phone number, I try calling, but no answer. If I know their mailing address, I then write a letter, asking anyone who sees it to please tell me if they are still OK, or else tell me if not, as the case may be. Usually no one answers. Then I have to sadly assume that they must have departed this mortal coil, as we all will do.

On 9/11, I was at Peace Corps headquarters in Tegucigalpa, Honduras, after coming to the capital for a dental checkup. Sitting on a couch with other volunteers, I watched cable TV news from the US, hearing the announcer say that a plane had crashed into one of New York’s twin towers as that image appeared on screen. Then, a short time later, we saw another such collision live on TV, indicating it was no accident. This was followed by a plane crashing into the Pentagon, then another imploding in an empty field. We stayed watching TV in silence, trying to figure out what was going on. Our director announced over an intercom that the US had been attacked and we were to stay where we were until further notice. Hondurans were shocked that the mighty USA had endured such attacks. Images appeared on the front pages of all the papers. After a couple of days, we were allowed to go back to our Peace Corps sites. That year, in 2001, I returned to the States for Christmas, suddenly encountering rigorous airline passenger screening. After leaving the airport outside DC, we passed by the Pentagon, which was partially destroyed, so then the attack really hit home for me.

More recently, we local folks who witnessed the attack and break-in at the capitol by Trump supporters on January 6, now view domestic terrorism, abetted by the former president, as perhaps a greater threat than foreign terrorism. Trump’s minions, probably in smaller numbers, are due back again on September 18. Fencing may go up around the capitol once more. To prevent another assault, Mr. Trump could simply tell his people to stay home.

Donald Trump, who apparently plans another run for the presidency, unfortunately for members of both political parties, routinely refers to groups he does not identify with as if they were a monolith, “the blacks,” “the Catholics,” “the Jews,” all of whom did not vote for him last time in sufficient numbers, though, of course, that election was also “stolen.”

I am probably an outlier in advocating for allowing a few Robert E. Lee statues to remain in the public square as acknowledgement that the Confederacy once existed and had its own heroes.

I still marvel at the magic of the internet which, despite its downsides, connects us with so many folks all over the world, now keeping me in touch with visitors from other nations. For a man from Nigeria, I am “Madam Barbs;” a woman from Bhutan addresses me as “Aunty.” How nice to have friends wherever I might go. They’ve invited me to visit. What if I actually took a trip all around the post-pandemic world to see everyone once again? Here is my Nigerian friend with 2 of his daughters, students at an air force secondary school. 




This is a persistent problem, also happening in Europe. Both the US and Europe could use a few more working-age people and young families, but not a whole avalanche. And if any newcomers manage to make it, that just acts as a magnet for others. During my Peace Corps years living in Honduras, now about 2 decades ago, I found that getting to the US was the dream of so many young people, not based on the reality of what their life would be like here, but on TV and movies dubbed in Spanish (and other languages), a dream that still continues today. In the Peace Corps, now getting up and running once again, we tried to get folks inspired and organized to improve their life at home.

Here you see me in Honduras during my Peace Corps tenure, at a museum in Copán. In 1941, when I was quite small, our family was living in Honduras while my father was working at the historic ruins there and unearthed this statue. 


So when I went back to Honduras in the Peace Corps in my 60s, it was like coming full circle.

I sometimes talk by phone with Betío, a Honduran environmental activist whom I once sponsored for asylum. He then won his case and was able to bring his wife and 10 children to this country. The family later moved to Texas, where they now reside. Betío, at age 62, is still working in construction, confessing that he has not been vaccinated, though his wife has been. I urged him to take time out to do it. Only 3 kids are still living at home.

Most of the photos being posted here now are some I took in south Sudan, a country at a comparable state of development as Afghanistan. In both places, people live at a very basic level. A major difference is that most south Sudanese are Christian, not Muslim, so men and women are not separated, though they do have different social roles. I flew to and around that country in cargo planes just like some used to evacuate Afghan refugees. According to reports and photos now coming out of the nascent nation of South Sudan, which became independent in 2011, not much progress of any kind has occurred since my mission there in 2006. These photos are all from an album.






























HuffPost, 15 Miami-Dade Public School Staff Members Die Of COVID In Just 10 Days [Republican Gov. Ron DeSantis, adamant foe of masks and other virus precautions, had no comment.]

 

Republican lawmakers seem to think that not acknowledging Covid will make it go away. In Florida, records of Covid deaths are reportedly not being released. Some prominent anti-vaxxers’ families have even failed to mention Covid as the cause of death in obituaries. Playing the innocent, Florida’s Governor Ron DeSantis has expressed surprise that mask-wearing in his state has become so politicized. Isn’t his campaign still selling merchandize deriding mask-wearing?

 

Nicole Hanna Jones may have found her niche at Howard University and good luck to her. But she does need to correct her misinformation about afro-Cubans living on the island, who hardly have benefited from the Castro regime, still living on the lowest rungs of the already economically and socially challenged Cuban society. And do you ever see them in the upper echelons of the Communist Party? Jones is not alone among gullible African American leaders led astray by Cuban government propaganda, among them, Jesse Jackson and California Congresswoman Maxine Waters. I much appreciated that the late Georgia Congressman John Lewis was able to look beyond Cuban regime propaganda. Here he is again, meeting with Afro-Cuban activist and 17-year former Amnesty International prisoner of conscience Antúnez. He was the only Black Caucus member agreeing to such a meeting.


 

Miami Herald, Former Cuban political prisoner given eviction notice. Mayor Levine Cava steps in [Ana Lázara Rodríguez, who appears in my Confessions book, along with my photo of her. She spent 19 years in Cuba as a political prisoner.]

Miami Herald, 12 Cuban migrants made landfall in Key West, Border Patrol says

Miami Herald, The Coast Guard returned 35 people to Cuba after stopping five boats headed to the U.S. Marine migration attempts from Cuba to the U.S. continue to climb with the number of people willing to make the dangerous trip across the Florida Straits now above 700.


Insider, Cuba starts vaccinations for toddlers amid a devastating surge in COVID-19 cases in the country

Miami Herald, As crackdown continues, the Cuban government is holding visual artist hostage, activists say Cuban visual artist Hamlet Lavastida, detained for more than two months in Villa Marista, the feared Cuban state security headquarters in Havana, could have written the script about his arbitrary arrest. Lavastida, who has exhibited his work deconstructing Cuba’s state propaganda and repressive tactics in major international galleries, earlier this year told Hypermedia magazine he found a clear connection between the Stalinist trials and the current repression against independent artists in Cuba.

Cuba “is a police state,” Lavastida told the magazine. Then he got a firsthand experience of what his words mean. After Lavastida returned to Cuba from Berlin, where he was an artist-in-residence at the cultural center Künstlerhaus Bethanien, Cuban state security agents arrested him on June 26...

Miami Herald, DHS extends Temporary Protected Status for Haitians, Central Americans and others The renewals for El Salvador, Haiti, Honduras, Nepal, Nicaragua, and Sudan will last until Dec. 31, 2022

 

Bloomberg, A Million Haitians Face ‘Acute’ Hunger After Quake Damaged Farms

 

AP, Nicaragua presidential aspirant charged, will face trial [Cristina Chamorro, daughter of Violeta Chamorro who defeated Ortega in 1990.]

 

BBC, Sergio Ramírez: Nicaragua orders arrest of award-winning author

 Among those who have been detained or put under house since June are:

·        Berenice Quezada, candidate for vice-president and former beauty queen

·        Dora María Tellez, former comrade-in-arms of President Ortega turned critic

·        María Fernanda Flores Lanzas, former first lady and ex-Congresswoman

·        Ana Margarita Vijil, lawyer and opposition activist

·        Juan Sebastián Chamorro, presidential hopeful

·        Félix Maradiaga, presidential hopeful

NBC, 'Riverdale' cast calls for Nicaraguan government to release showrunner's father The cast of the CW series “Riverdale” asked fans to support their push for the release of their showrunner’s father in Nicaragua, who his family fears is being held as a political prisoner after he was arrested in July. Police detained the man, Francisco Aguirre-Sacasa, Nicaragua’s former foreign minister, on July 27 after authorities stopped him from traveling to Costa Rica...His family has not heard from him since then and worries that he has been “disappeared” for his opposition to the current regime, his son Roberto Aguirre-Sacasa, the showrunner of “Riverdale,” said...

Last time I hinted at something now even more likely to come true, namely that abortifacients self-administered behind closed doors will put most abortion clinics out of business and reduce the political salience of abortion in the political discourse. Abortion will become a more private matter and those supporting life from conception will have to rely mainly on persuasion. Nor will resurrecting the images of clothes hangers work anymore in support of legal abortion because clothes hangers are not used any more. However, hospitals may still intervene, especially when a mother’s life is in danger or the fetus has a condition incompatible with life, although viability has been moving ever lower as neonatal care improves. Roe, if it remains law, may be upgraded to reflect these new medical realities. But is the right to an abortion a constitutional right, as some advocates have apparently declared? That seems a stretch. Are they referring to the right to privacy?

 

However, trying to head off this scenario is South Dakota Governor Kristi Noem, who has restricted access to abortion medications in her state. And will she and other red-state governors offer any more help to children after they are born? Biden is now trying to do that by providing more assistance to low-income families. Sometimes, more concern is expressed about animal abuse than about policies affecting children.

 

Probably most women who find themselves unexpectedly pregnant do carry the baby to term and are glad they did. While pregnancy can certainly be inconvenient and uncomfortable and childbirth more than uncomfortable, often after the birth, hormones kick in to help new mothers fall in love with their babies. And having a child as an unmarried woman no longer carries the stigma it once did. However, the current baby bust in the US and Europe is not likely to be reversed as women expand their activities beyond motherhood.

 

Those carrying an accidental pregnancy to term will probably still include those most unlikely of mothers, girls aged 11 and 12, usually impregnated by a trusted family member. As a former social worker and Spanish interpreter, I’ve seen girls this age, almost on the verge of giving birth, whose own mothers only belatedly have even noticed they were pregnant. The girls themselves have kept completely mum about their situation. And once their pregnancy is noticed, usually these young mothers-to-be have steadfastly refused to name the father, though most had step-fathers who seemed to be likely suspects. In a few cases I know about, the baby was quietly incorporated into the family, never being told that an older “sister” was actually his/her birth mother.

 

Washington Examiner, GOP lawmaker introduces bill to increase resources for pregnant women  Nebraska Republican Rep. Jeff Fortenberry introduced the Care for Her Act, legislation that seeks to bridge gaps between existing resources for women facing unplanned pregnancies... The bill would not restrict abortion. Instead, it would make expectant mothers eligible for the existing child tax credit. [This seems like a good idea, but Democrats were caught off-guard, not sure how to respond.]

 

Right-to-lifers now need to step up to offer practical assistance and moral support to women who might seek an abortion and not just up to moment of birth.

 

On the subject of babies and young children, how can parents who have experienced pregnancy, childbirth, and the daily feeding, changing, bathing, and dressing of their offspring suddenly can forget about them in the back seat, leaving them to die in a hot car?  

 

Interesting how abortion rights advocates use the slogan, “my body, my choice” and mostly identify as Democrats, while anti-maskers use a version of the same, though as staunch Republicans. In fact, no one is an island.

What’s more important, the journey or the destination? Reaching personal and aspirational goals is the stuff of advertising: revving up the motor on that brand new car, being awarded your final degree, marrying your soul mate, buying that dream home, welcoming a new baby, winning the lottery, retiring after years of service, wow! Of course, once you’ve achieved any of those, the pleasure is fleeting, as per the well-known “honeymoon” phenomenon. But after each achievement, a brand-new challenge often arises, confirming the tried-and-true occupational therapy principle that we will always seek out “purposeful activity.” I’ve speculated about whether the drug overdose deaths and suicides of certain famous or high achieving individuals may be due partly to their having reached the pinnacle and finding nothing else to strive for? 

 


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