Thursday, September 29, 2022

Around the neighborhood, around the world

Fall arrived on schedule, no more high temps approaching 90 F. It began right on the first official day of fall, Sept. 22. By Sept. 23, it had started getting downright chilly overnight and also in the early morning. But today, Sept. 29, is a beautiful day with clear blue sky and no bugs while I was outside.

While I've tried to make corrections, after various efforts, I give up and beg your indulgence. 

Hurricane Ian bore down on Florida’s west coast, where my older daughter, granddaughter, and great-grandson live. My daughter, though vaccinated, also came down with Omicron without any sick leave on her job, a common situation in Florida. She was hunkering down alone in her apartment, feeling lousy and bracing for Ian’s hit. Her daughter left some food outside her door on last Tues. and called to let her know it was out there. But after the worst of the hurricane had passed today and their electricity was still out (including electric stoves), my granddaughter came by to pick up her mother, now basically recovered from Covid, to try to find something to eat. They dared not open refrigerators, hoping they would stay cool.

Petition to Cuban hotels to give shelter to hurricane victims. Petición a cadenas hoteleras extranjeras en Cuba para que acojan a familias afectadas por el huracán https://www.cubanet.org/noticias/piden-a-cadenas-hoteleras-que-alberguen-a-cubanos-que-queden-sin-hogar/

Cats are beautiful, but unfortunately for me, I’m quite allergic to them. Though they have nice soft fur, I scarcely dare to even pet one. A local cat was lost, then found through the neighborhood website.  


Here is another cat that’s been hanging around the neighborhood. Is it lost or feral?
 

I’m more of a dog person, having had both Border Collies and black Labs. But I if I were ever to get a dog again, unlikely as I’m lucky to be able to care for myself, I’ve now become fascinated by Dalmatian mixes. 






                                            Above is actually a terrier/poodle mix. 

An unfamiliar tortoise-shell cat has been hanging out in my backyard which is good for warding off mice and rats, but which also may be scaring off birds. It doesn’t belong to my new neighbors, whom I’ve just met, a retired couple from Mass. They’ve moved in next door to be near their daughter and her family. Their 3-year-old granddaughter will be staying with them for a week while her parents are away. It’s wonderful that they are able to help out that way and to forge a stronger family connection. I could have really used such assistance back when I was a single working parent.

‘It’s a miracle’: Gran Abuelo in Chile could be world’s oldest living tree

100ft alerce has estimated age of 5,484, more than 600 years older than Methuselah in California

California’s Methuselah tree has been mentioned before on these pages. Now this even more venerable Chilean tree’s age was estimated with a sample taken from the core, a seemingly risky maneuver. “Old Granddad” would be its name in Spanish.


The Conversation, The 'fathers of the church' died around 1,500 years ago, but these ancient leaders still influence Christianity today
  

Another foray into history has been afforded by the discovery of a 3000-year-old wooden canoe buried in the sand by a Wisconsin lake. It is 14 ½ feet long and carved from a single piece of white oak, showing that humans were fishing out on the lake and living on our continent that long ago. How did this boat become abandoned on the shore? Had people lived in the area for generations or migrated from elsewhere? Did they also tend crops and harvest wild fruits and berries? Did they hunt and wear animal skins? What was their language? We’ll probably never know.

Britain’s royal saga in the wake of Queen Elizabeth’s death continues.
Cosmopolitan, Kate Middleton Will Get "Lion's Share" of Queen's Jewelry, But Camilla Will Have "First Choice"

                                                 Yes, but who will get her hats? 


Wash. Post, Judge lets Jan. 6 defendant have guns to hunt so he can save on groceries 

A ridiculous decision, Recall that judge! 

The British pound fell, at least temporarily, to a level almost on a par with the dollar. In a tweet, Larry the Cat says:Forget the dollar, the pound is tanking against the ruble.”

Yahoo Finance, Jamie Dimon calls crypto tokens 'decentralized Ponzi schemes'

Isn’t any type of currency, whether coins, bills, or bank balances, actually some sort of Ponzi scheme? Though not relying strictly on a continuing inflow of new investments, as Ponzi does, all money has value only because people ascribe value to it. It has no intrinsic worth. If ordinary people lose faith in a currency, its value plummets. US currency has value because folks all around the world trust the dollar and trust our economy, so the dollar’s value becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy. Still, right now, because that trust is eroding, the dollar is losing value. People are losing faith in money and the world seems headed toward a recession. Only the barter of physical goods, as engaged in by our ancient ancestors, assures exact value, at least in the eyes of those actually making a trade.

California will BAN all new gas-fueled furnaces and heaters by 2030 to cut ozone levels | Daily Mail Online
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-11252345/California-BAN-new-gas-fueled-furnaces-heaters-2030-cut-ozone-levels.html

I no longer live in California, where home heating is not as crucial as here in DC. And gas heating was already installed here when we moved into our DC home back in 1969.  I’ve been in a dispute for 3 years now with the gas company, which keeps threatening to cut off my gas supply. But bravo to California, and also to DC, which already requires heating in new buildings to be gas-free by 2026.

A Brazilian-born friend, who came to this country originally to play soccer, just sent me a photo of himself at his long-ago US citizenship ceremony.

Back then, he had let me know that he’d been awarded citizenship by leaving a phone message singing the Stars Spangled Banner.

            Here’s a guy inspired by American school shooters.

https://www.reuters.com/world/americas/cubans-head-polls-vote-govt-sponsored-code-legalize-gay-marriage-adoption-2022-09-25/. This is the initiative of Mariela Castro, a long-time gay rights’ advocate. She is Raúl Castro's daughter, apparently not gay herself but a gay rights supporter within the Cuban communist hierarchy. (Dad Raúl has been rumored to be gay or at least bisexual.) This is the first time since 1959 that Cubans have been allowed a nationwide vote. Now will their appetite be whet for more voting? Gay marriage was approved in the vote.  

It still rather amazes me to have so many friends and former housemates living all over the world, folks with whom I’m still able to connect at will, thanks to the magic of the internet (except for those in Cuba). Most have spent time in my home. Anyone who has ever stayed with me over these past few years has come only by word-of-mouth; I’ve never looked for any of them and most have proved most welcome, with a few notable exceptions. I still enjoy communicating with them, hearing about and seeing photos of their lives back home. Several folks used to come via the GAO fellows’ program, which was shut down by the pandemic.

Others have been visiting scholars at the Museum of African Art. How did that ever get started? I’d once gotten into a conversation with a museum employee, who, when learning that I lived nearby, asked me whether I could host short-term visitors who otherwise have trouble finding housing? I recall once helping a Zambian artist in that program to fill out and submit a successful Canadian immigration application, requiring fees submitted in Canadian dollars, which presented a challenge, but she was accepted and now lives in Toronto. Most of my local friends and neighbors and even my own kids do not enjoy such worldwide connections. I feel very fortunate in that regard.

Yet thanks or no thanks to the internet, we all also learn about all the terrible schemes, about the deliberate harm and death that human beings can and do inflict on each other. Some perpetrators seem to escape punishment scot-free, living out their lives unnoticed among us, their crimes revealed only after death. But others, having spent most of their life living quietly as normal citizens, perhaps trying even to forget their crime or to make amends, then, in their later years, thanks to new investigative techniques, must finally face justice after all. That’s happened after a young woman was brutally killed in California in 1982, leading to the recent arrest in Hawaii of a 75-year-old man, Gary Ramirez, now charged with her murder. He’s been at liberty for 40 years. Is justice delayed actually justice denied?

One also has to wonder if Ramirez has come off as just a regular guy to his family and friends in Hawaii? Has he tried to live honorably and generously during the decades since the murder? Does he even remember what he did? It would be interesting to know more, so I’ll try to follow up.

There are apparently folks able to move through this world without ever displaying basic empathy, resulting in a loss to their families and associates as well as to themselves. I don’t know if Gary Ramirez is one of those individuals.

And human cruelty extends even to the treatment of animals.

Huff Post, Abducted Orphan Chimps Held For Ransom In Horrifying Scene

This has happened in the Democratic Republic of Congo. I don’t know the final outcome. Chimps, baby chimps specifically, are not so far from human infants and thus evoke our protective instincts. We'd hope the young chimps are still OK. 
       

And people are no longer bound by strict geographic loyalties, as Britons and Americans are among the prisoners exchanged with Russia in a recent prisoner swap, showing that many foreign volunteers have joined Ukrainians in their fight.

In Iran, the death of a young woman for wearing her hijab too loosely has aroused much of the population’s pent-up frustrations with excessive government controls. When people see that they are not alone in expressing their anger, they feel empowered and prove willing to take risks.


An Amnesty International member originally from Iran makes this plea:

Please spread the word! On social media please use the following hashtags: #mahsa_amini #MahsaAmini #IranProtests2022 #IranProtests #WomenOfIran

Also, you may use the following Farsi hashtags:
Mahsa Amini's name in Farsi

#مهسا_امینی #مهساامینی 

Woman_Life_Freedom in Farsi:

#زن_زندگی_آزادی 

Cardinal Zen faces trial in China https://www.nationalreview.com/2022/09/the-stakes-of-cardinal-zens-trial/

Insider, The special master Trump requested is calling for extra help to review the seized Mar-a-Lago documents — and will be billing Trump $500 an hour for it

NBC News, Liz Cheney says she would campaign for Democrats

She has said she will do this when 2020 election deniers are the candidates.


ABC News, Biden struggles, as does his party, as most Democrats look elsewhere for 2024: POLL

According to current polls, a repeat Biden-Trump matchup, if conducted now, would be much closer this time, too close for comfort, given the quirks of the Electoral College. The nation, the world, certainly cannot endure another Trump presidency. One was already too much. What is the secret of Trump’s enduring appeal to so many voters?

 

Cory Booker has just made an urgent online appeal. Donald Trump has over $100 million stashed in campaign funds — and he just announced the formation of a new Super PAC dubbed “MAGA Inc.” to tip the scales toward Republican Senate candidates in the final days of this election:

“Trump to unleash millions in the midterms in possible prelude to 2024” — POLITICO

The message has gotten through to those living in communist countries that if they can somehow make it across the US border, perhaps with the help of US-based relatives, their chances of being allowed to stay are pretty good. Granted that some still remain in detention, but many others have been released and are allowed to work. So now more refugees from those countries are crowding the southern border, as this may seem like their only chance. It’s difficult for Republicans to complain about welcoming those fleeing communism. “This is a totally different circumstance," Biden has said. "What’s on my watch now is Venezuela, Cuba, and Nicaragua. And the ability to send them back to those states is not rational.” 

ABC News, Search underway after vessel carrying dozens of migrants sinks amid Hurricane Ian

This article and subsequent reports indicate that the migrants were from Cuba. Only a few were rescued or managed to make it to shore.

Incidentally, my recent Costa Rican visitor, Alex, told me that the last time he came back to Miami after a visit with his family, he was detained for several hours in a separate room along with other seemingly suspect arrivals from Latin America. When he was finally released, having missed his connecting flight, he was told by an Immigration agent that it was because he carried no luggage, just a small backpack, which apparently was a red flag.

After seeing ads for contributions to UFW, United Farm Workers, I was reminded of my long-ago close encounters with that organization, when my late former husband and I joined marches with founder Cesar Chavez, since deceased. His sidekick, Dolores Huerta, now age 92, had received the Presidential Medal of Freedom from President Barack Obama. Years ago, a usually pregnant Dolores slept on our living room couch when lobbying at the state capital in Sacramento. She had 11 children by 3 different fathers, kids usually cared for by other farmer worker women while she was busy with political advocacy.

With the midterms looming, abortion is still a contentious issue. Many American women see abortion restrictions as a big setback in achieving full equality with men. Men can have sex without evident consequences, so now women too want the pleasure without the risk, with abortion helping to level the playing field. Yahoo Life, How the repeal of Roe v. Wade affects college students in states like Texas, Pa.: 'I felt like women everywhere were back at square one' A female student is quoted in the article as saying, “We already had so much work left to be done on the road to equality.”

Another view is that women have the unique privilege of bearing children, how we humans have ever come into being, the way humankind has always continued to exist since time immemorial. While some women will go to great lengths not to give birth, others will endure all sorts of treatments to help them do so. Don’t transgender women wish they also could give birth? 



Metro, Mother ignored doctor’s advice to terminate pregnancy and now her baby is thriving

 

National Review, Pro-Life Activist Arrested After SWAT Team Raids Home with Guns Drawn in Front of ‘Screaming’ Children

Mark Houck, a Pa. pro-life activist and father of seven, was taken into custody after an alleged incident at an abortion clinic where he was apparently accused of interfering with a “patient escort.” Details are unknown, with conflicting descriptions of what actually happened.

 

Fox News, Elderly pro-life volunteer in Michigan shot after 'heated conversation,' pro-life group says


 AP, Judge: Indiana can't enforce abortion burial, cremation law

In what may seem like a petty argument, pro-lifers want to emphasize the humanity of aborted fetuses by burying them, while abortion supporters are saying a burial makes a woman who has had an abortion feel responsible for a human death. (Isn’t that precisely the point?) Although the Supreme Court has upheld the fetal burial practice, now it has been challenged anew by the ACLU and a judge has agreed. That successful challenge, in turn, is being appealed by the state of Indiana. The question of the humanity of a fetus is at the heart of the abortion issue.

 

Most of us are just ordinary, anonymous everyday people, not Marilyn Monroe or Bill Gates, not beautiful, rich, or famous, neither enormously talented nor greatly admired. But like the rich and famous, like crowned royalty, we all just live day-to-day, brushing our teeth in the morning, connecting with others during the day, having ups and downs, experiencing delights and disappointments with some fluctuations proving more extreme than others. But as long as we are still warm and breathing, the ups and downs will continue. Our “honeymoon” with any fresh endeavor, whether marriage, parenthood, a new job, elected office, a brand-new home, a budding friendship, a religious conversion, or winning the lottery, will last only for about 6 months to 2 1/2 years. We might fantasize otherwise, but reality will set in sooner or later. Some people admit to having affairs, not because of lack of affection for their spouse, but just to experience change, variety, surprise. Advertisers, pundits, and gurus keep trying to lure us with exciting promises, but whatever they have to offer has a limited shelf life. It’s OK to enjoy it while you can, but don’t be surprised when whatever has enticed you fades or ends.

 

Comparing my own life experiences with those of associates (without being privy to their private travails), I feel I’ve confronted more than my share of pain, not only with my late husband’s departure and his extreme and sudden rejection, but more crucially with my son’s and foster son’s untimely deaths, as well as with ongoing problems involving my remaining kids and grandkids. I’m handling everything the best I can, trying not to get overly stressed because that affects my ability to help. Occasionally, I feel like asking my late son’s advice, but, of course, I cannot.

 

Some lives may be truly harder to bear than others, involving extreme bouts of physical and mental suffering, but no one’s existence, however privileged, is ever smooth or easy. Though outsiders may never know the full details, Queen Elizabeth certainly endured serious losses and challenges during her 96 years. No one is exempt.

 

We all enjoy change and excitement, but also find comfort in familiarity, as I do, just living in my home of more than 50 years, opening up my bedroom curtains in the morning to look out at a lovely tree, then going down a familiar flight of stairs. We control as much as we can, then must adapt to the rest. That’s not a particularly earthshattering observation, but one that a surprising number of people still fail to appreciate. They keep on “chasing their dream,” looking for an elusive pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, that magic something to deliver them from all struggle and pain. I wonder if shocking suicides among successful young achievers may sometimes be due partly to their having reached a pinnacle and not knowing where to go from there?

 

NY Times, The Dazzling Life and Shocking Death of Cheslie Kryst

African American influencer Cheslie Kryst was an overachiever, a former track star, beauty queen, college success, and TV correspondent who took her own life at 30 after asking, “Why work so hard to capture the dreams I’ve been taught by society to want when I continue to find only emptiness?”

It also has been revealed that celebrity chef Anthony Bourdain, who took his own life, hated being famous. Always being in the spotlight, while perhaps proving exciting at first, probably gets old fast. Money, fame, and influence may result in a lack of privacy, peace, and relaxation. Even though I’ve hoped my books would be read, I’ve mostly shunned engaging in the personal publicity required to attract readers. The same thing with this blog, which is spread only by word-of-mouth. Privacy is more precious than fame. 

While we might want to shun fame, we’d all do well to remember that old occupational therapy adage about the human need for “purposeful activity.” Without finding ongoing challenges, we would soon die of boredom. Occupational therapists, with whom I worked for 16 years, have helped clients find meaning and a sense of achievement in even such simple activities as dressing themselves or being able to express themselves to others.

 

Sometimes, to verify my recollections, I go back to previous dates on this blog or its predecessor, with photos providing visual corroboration of my memories. It gives me a sense of nostalgia and pleasure to relive those prior experiences from the last few decades of my long and rather varied life, unusual in the sense that it seems unlike in many ways from that of neighbors and friends.

 

A blog reader notes that I’ve often seemed repetitious here, yes, admittedly so. Sorry about that, but this is a diary of sorts, not a polished narrative or commercial venture. My life mostly follows a familiar pattern these days, with a few rare bouts of excitement interspersed, as with my recent trip to Honduras. A hundred years from now, if this blog should still exist somewhere up in the Cloud, historians can review it for a picture of one woman’s life and times.

 

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Here are some recent Facebook and other notices:

Spanish/English Healthcare Interpreters and Translators

Traductores e Intérpretes Profesionales

¿Con cuánta deuda necesita ayuda?

  

Infertility TikTok (Yes, I’d certainly have trouble getting pregnant these days.)

I know Heaven is a beautiful place because they have my son. 





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