Thursday, June 16, 2022

Daughter’s Surprise Visit, Dr. Oz, LGBTQIA+, Queen’s Jubilee, Nigeria, Gun Killings & Mass Murder, Texas School Shooting, Firearms Laws, Culture Wars, US Population Stagnation, Baby Bust, Cuban Prisoners

It’s been a while since I’ve posted here, partly because of my daughter’s visit, and partly because of many problems posting and other technical issues, but here we are again at long last, going through several news cycles. Lots here about guns and death, because that’s what keeps on happening. Also, about abortion in light of the leaked Supreme Court decision.

 

Although family members and friends are far away and not often seen in person, I do marvel that we can now communicate across vast distances. It was not always the case. I recall that once, decades ago, a Ugandan friend had sent me a US $5 bill with a letter to take to his wife, who had been arrested here for drug smuggling. I had been amazed at the time that a crisp $5 bill for her had actually arrived intact in an ordinary airmail letter. Yes, I did take that money and letter to her in prison, where we met for the first time. She was surprised and glad to have the money and to have me as a visitor, and knowing she had not been forgotten. Her husband had told their relatives and children back home that she was working in the US, a ruse that would have been nearly impossible to maintain today.

 

It’s been a while since I’ve posted here, partly because I had a visitor, partly because of problems posting, but now here we are. My daughter Stephanie and her husband made a surprise visit to upper NY state to celebrate his mother’s 80th birthday. Her husband’s family is from Ukraine so the last few months have been worrisome and stressful. After celebrating her mother-in-law’s birthday, Stephanie took a train to DC to visit me.


Now another visitor has arrived, Alexander from Costa Rica, a country where I’ve spent considerable time at various junctures in my life, starting in adolescence. So, I look forward to getting to know Alexander. How do people from abroad find me? Much of the credit must go to the internet.

 

Living here on Capitol Hill, I personally witnessed the assault on capitol of Jan. 6, 2021, albeit from a safe distance of about 3 blocks. Even from 3 blocks away on East Capitol St., a raucous, rowdy crowd was quite visible and audible. I dared not venture any further. I beg to differ with those who said it never happened.

 

Several immediate neighbors are planning to move away, perhaps worried that rising interest rates might thwart their plans. Two houses on my block have sold recently and now one next door has just sold, along with 2 others around the corner. But I am staying put.

Wash. Post, Putin likens himself to Peter the Great, links imperial expansion to Ukraine war

The war in Ukraine continues to the detriment of both sides. Vladimir Putin did not want Ukraine to leave his political orbit and perhaps Ukraine would have done better by not announcing an intention to leave. In hindsight, could it have waited until Putin was gone? But because of Putin, it was felt that such protection was actually needed, as indeed it has turned out to be.

 A friend in Honduras, a big TV fan of Dr. Oz, hanging onto his every word (as dubbed in Spanish), will be happy that he has won his primary bid and I know she will be rooting for him in November.

 

What is LGBTQIA+? Good question. It’s not enough to be plain old male or female in a conventional role or even to just be gay, rather, now people have an array of other choices. Apparently young people, in today’s more accepting atmosphere, have become more eager to explore gender identities and expressions than in past generations.

 

Queen Elizabeth II’s platinum jubilee—70 years as queen--was a nice distraction offsetting the bitterness of everyday news.

 

About the recent murders of Christians in Nigeria, my friend there, no fan of President Biden, says the following:  

Good evening, madam Barbs.

It has been one gory tale after another here in Nigeria since some months now. It's really a pity! You can see that Biden is not a good leader, compared to Trump. Trump is an outspoken leader who had the interest of humanity generally and Christians in particular at heart. But unfortunately, Biden is not. It's a pity.

We really appreciate your concern. My wife asked me to greet you specially.

 

But all is not gloom and doom. "First, the bright spots. Nearly every year, and Freedom House documents this, even amidst the worrying trendlines and the prevailing narratives about autocratic ascendency, a peaceful, pro-democracy, anti-corruption movement emerges, shaking the halls of entrenched power. Typically, that movement is violently suppressed and cut down. We’ve seen that in Iran, we saw it in Syria, we continue to see it in Belarus, and of course, in Cuba. Occasionally, that movement breaks through, it establishes itself forcefully. We’ve seen that happen in decades past in South Africa. South Korea. Indonesia."  Samantha Power, Policy Address on Democracy and Development, June 8, 2022

 

June is Gun Violence Awareness Month. Are we now more aware? Or have we simply become numb?

 

It turns out that guns are dangerous! Imagine that! Some folks are just now coming to that belated realization after a continuous series of mass shootings all around the US. Now the majority of deaths for children and young people under age 18 are from gun violence, surpassing even motor vehicle deaths.

 

"We need to ban assault weapons and high-capacity magazines. And if we can't ban assault weapons, then we should raise the age to purchase them from 18 to 21, strengthen background checks, enact safe storage laws and red flag laws. Repeal the immunity that protects gun manufacturers from liability, address the mental health crisis," President Biden said in an address to the nation.

 

March for Our Lives, Terror at DC Rally after Screaming Man Reportedly Claimed He was Armed

This just happened on Saturday here in DC, really scary. The screaming man turned out not to be armed, but was not arrested before panicking the gathered crowd, including survivors of mass shootings.

 

Insider, House Republican leaders told their members to vote against 8 gun-safety bills, citing opposition from the NRA and Gun Owners of America

Republicans’ fealty to the Second Amendment and the NRA remains inflexible. Gun rights supersede the right to life. 

 

NBC News, At least 12 dead in another weekend of mass shootings across America


ABC News, At least 5 dead, 27 injured as wave of weekend mass shootings in US continues

 

Here’s one close to home for us in DC.

AP, Authorities: 3 dead, trooper wounded in Maryland shooting

 

Will you or I be the next victims? Today, there are more guns in the country than people. With all those guns in circulation, accidents and impulse killings are bound to happen.

 

Might the gun carnage in Buffalo, New York, the killing at a Taiwanese church in southern California, and the massacre of children in Texas, all within days, have been prevented by stricter gun laws? That’s a remedy that’s hardly been considered. Many Republican lawmakers, beholden to gun manufacturers, don’t want to even discuss that option. Instead, they call for even more guns, including armed teachers, armed guards at schools, armed guards at shopping malls. Honduras is a country with lots of armed guards, even in grocery stores, hospitals and pharmacies, and with a higher gun death rate even than the US (though not yet a tradition of mass killings). More guns mean more gun deaths. And the example of someone like the Texas killer, though not often named, being splashed all over the internet, incentivizes others to follow suit. In fact, some already have. Is this carnage what our forefathers envisioned when in the second amendment they called for “a well-regulated Militia”?

The definition of a “mass shooting” can vary, but whatever measure is used, the toll continues. Gun violence has become an epidemic in the US. Some are copycat crimes, incentivized by reports of shootings in print, broadcasts, and social media. Reports often avoid mentioning the shooters’ names or anything else that might give them notoriety, even posthumously. We are getting kind of numb to these ongoing reports; it’s hard to be continually shocked over and over.

 

(Would-be refugees gathered at the US border apparently are not deterred by publicity about mass murders across the border.)

 

Ashville Citizen-Times Opinion: Now that we have 400 million guns, are we yet safe?

The author, John Owens, uses a wheelchair after being shot himself.

 

It’s happening right here, too close to home.

 

Wash. Post, 10 dead after shootings in Philadelphia, Tenn., S.C. and Michigan

 

Where will it happen next? Will it only hit home to us when we ourselves or our loved ones are targeted? Another mass murder has occurred in Texas, the land of “open carry,” ABC News, 'Bright, shining stars': Family of 5 killed in connection with escaped inmate ID'd

 

Arizona Republic, A mass shooting, and 2 more bodies: 3 Phoenix shootings in one night leave loved ones reeling

Associated Press

AP, 4 killed in shooting at Tulsa medical building, shooter dead

Since January, there have been 12 shootings where four or more people have been killed, according to The Associated Press/USA TODAY/Northeastern University mass killing database. Those shootings have left 76 dead, including 31 adults and children in Buffalo and Texas, the database says. The death toll does not include the suspects in the shootings.

 

U.S. has experienced more than 230 mass shootings so far this year

Associated Press

USA Today, 'Beyond devastating': 6 dead, 25 wounded in Philadelphia, Chattanooga club shootings

AP, Police fatally shoot Texas fugitive after family of 5 killed

Reuters, Three people dead after shooting in Iowa church parking lot

This latter may not qualify as a mass shooting because “only” 3 people died.

And murders of spouses and other domestic partners have continued unabated, usually carried out with guns, as in the following case. Rarely is an outsider the actual perpetrator of a murder taking place at home.

LA Times, Nancy Crampton Brophy Found Guilty for the Murder of Chef-Instructor Husband Daniel Brophy A Multnomah County jury delivered its verdict today, declaring Crampton Brophy — the author of the 2011 essay “How to Murder Your Husband” —guilty of second-degree murder.

Milwaukee Journal Sentinel, A teen held in a deadly shooting was freed without paying bail. Then, police say, the 17-year-old fired another fatal bullet.

 

AP, NY passes bill raising age to buy, own semi-automatic rifles

The age has been raised only from 18 to 21, but still an improvement. Forty percent of mass shooters are men between 18-29, with the deadliest shooters usually under age 21, so any increase in the age for gun possession would certainly help.

 

Between 1982 and now, 124 mass shootings (defined as having 4 or more victims) have been carried out by men and 3 by women, so there is a stark gender difference, probably due both to hormones and cultural factors. (Even male animals are more aggressive than females.) Ninety percent of those who commit homicide are male, as are the majority of victims, and men also make up most suicides, two types of killings done predominantly with guns. Both men and women are more likely to be killed with firearms by someone they know than by a stranger. Though I oppose the death penalty in principle, it’s hard to justify death penalty abolition in the wake of the recent rash of horrible and continuing fatal crimes.

 

According to an intriguing article: Wash. Post, Eight weeks of therapy, plus some cash, can change the lives of violent men Could we as nation afford this? Could we afford not to do it? It’s a program tried first in Liberia, now being implemented in Chicago in high crime neighborhoods.

 

In hindsight, many mistakes were made by law enforcement in recent killings, especially in Uvalde, Texas, where, at first, no alert was sounded after the armed shooter had shot his own grandmother; then when an outside school door was closed by a teacher but was not locked; and, finally, when there was a long hesitation by first responders about confronting the shooter, perhaps out of fear for their own lives, while they gathered for over an hour outside a locked classroom with the shooter inside. As children lay dying and bleeding to death, some might have been saved if responders had gone in sooner; some parents tried to go inside but were held back. Only reinforcements arriving from the border patrol later took down the shooter. What was reason for the hesitation? First responders need to overcome their personal fear to protect the community. Investigations are certainly in order, but too late now to prevent lives lost and serious injuries that will impact survivors as long as they live. The 50-year-old husband of one of the teachers killed collapsed and died after leaving flowers on a memorial to the victims. That couple leaves behind 4 children, one a marine, another a college student, while 2 daughters are in 7th and 10th grades.


 

President Biden was cheered when he visited the grieving town, while Governor Abbot was booed, as he deserved to be. These terrible events do have an emotional impact far from Texas, as I can personally attest when trying to fall sleep at night. There seems to be no silver lining to this dark cloud. Only better gun control—fewer guns--would provide that and that doesn’t seem to be in the cards so far. So, we and our loved ones all remain at risk. Days after Uvalde, another mass shooting occurred during an argument at an outdoor festival in Oklahoma, with one death and several people injured. Shooters are incentivizing each other and being armed makes it only too easy to pull out a gun during a fight. Both a 10-year-old and 18-year-old have been arrested in Florida since Uvalde for making firearms’ threats. Now according to the Washington Post, there were at least 14 more mass shootings--4 or more people shot-- in the US over the Memorial Day weekend. Even raising the age for gun ownership from 18 to 21 would help, as young men seem particularly volatile. Raising it to 25 would be even better, but is probably not feasible. Just banning assault weapons would also help and not affect hunters and firearms used for personal protection, though allowing fewer guns overall would be the safer course.

 

Ft. Worth Star-Telegram, What happens when ‘good guys with guns’ don’t use them? In Uvalde, Texas, children died

Police know how to end a school shooting.

“Wait an hour and then send in the Border Patrol SWAT team is not the right way. One of the worst days in Texas history is now a law enforcement outrage that will last for years. Uvalde police, school officers, county deputies and state troopers must explain why they guarded their own lives instead of 19 children’s, and then face the eternal scorn of parents face-to-face every day in that tight-knit ranching town west of San Antonio.

“Look, they are the first line of defense — their job is not to wait for the SWAT team,” said former Fort Worth police Chief Jeff Halstead, now a Las Vegas-based law enforcement consultant.

 

The House has passed a modest gun control bill in response to recent mass shootings that would raise the age limit for purchasing a semi-automatic rifle to 21 and prohibit the sale of ammunition magazines with a capacity of more than 15 rounds. The legislation, passed by a mostly party-line vote of 223-204, has almost no chance of becoming law because insufficient support in the Senate.

AP, Senate GOP blocks domestic terrorism bill, gun policy debate

No, absolutely no debate or vote, as the “right to bear arms” is sacrosanct for many Republican lawmakers, so it seems. Now, basic on shifts in public opinion, some Republicans are rethinking their opposition.

 

Sky News, Ted Cruz Storms Out on British Interviewer When Asked Why School Shootings Only Happen in America

GMA, In Texas and beyond, many politicians receive mega donations from pro-gun supporters

Texas Sens. Ted Cruz and John Cornyn, who represent the state where an 18-year-old gunman carried out one of the nation's deadliest school shootings last week, are among Congress' top recipients of contributions from pro-gun donors, campaign finance records show. Cruz, in particular, has taken in the most money from pro-gun individuals and groups of anyone in the current Congress, amassing $442,000 over the course of his career, according to an analysis of disclosure reports by the nonpartisan campaign finance research group OpenSecrets.

Cornyn ranks third among current U.S. senators and representatives, receiving a total of $340,000 in contributions from pro-gun donors over his career, after Rep. Steve Scalise, R-La., who has amassed $396,000, according to the analysis.

EJ Montini, in the Arizona Republic, Vilifying Republicans over gun laws is a complete waste of time

Firearms legislation meant to curb this kind of violence and save some lives will only happen when all that money being pumped into the GOP’s coffers stops translating into enough votes to keep Republicans in office. The most overused cliches are sometimes the truest, and none is more true than the one that goes: Money talks, BS walks. How do we know for sure? Well, just look who was invited to speak at the National Rifle Annual convention in Houston this weekend. At the top of the bill is former President Donald Trump.

 Ft. Worth Star-Telegram, NRA Texas convention, a celebration of guns, 2nd amendment, bans weapons for Trump speech

Speaking to the NRA in Houston, Donald Trump called efforts to curb gun violence “grotesque.” He ended up his rambling address with his usual complaints about a “stolen election.” He cannot let losing that election go. He only won in 2016 by a rare fluke that allowed him as the candidate with considerably fewer votes to declare victory. The odds were against having that ever happen again. Is Trump’s star finally fading now? Or is that wishful thinking? Democrats don’t now have a strong candidate to run against him. Trump’s hardcore supporters are still with him, even more so now that he is on the defensive. But Melania seems to have checked out completely on Donald as she is nowhere to be seen these days.

Scheduled to join Trump in what the NRA called “a celebration of Second Amendment Rights” were Texas Gov. Greg Abbott, Sen. John Cornyn, Sen. Ted Cruz, Rep. Dan Crenshaw, and a number of other elected officials (all Republicans). Abbott later backed out of appearing in person, addressing the gathering only “virtually.” He lamely suggested that the Uvalde massacre “could have been worse.” While putting the blame on “mental health,” he cut money for mental health services from the state budget and seems in no hurry to restore it. Many other scheduled speakers found excuses not to attend the NRA event, even virtually. Most entertainers cancelled at the last minute. Outside the gathering, protesters vented their fury. In Uvalde, parents who had lost children expressed anguish and anger, both at the gunman and their own dithering officials. Some injured children might have been saved if “first responders” had just entered the classroom sooner.

Wayne LaPierre survived an effort to oust him from the NRA leadership despite presentation of evidence of his unauthorized spending for personal luxuries. NRA speakers invariably blamed “mental health” problems for various recent shootings, including in Uvalde. It seems that “mental health” and “mental Illness” are only invoked after-the-fact in a gun killing, to steer attention away from gun proliferation, but never as a preventive measure. Does the NRA support more and better mental health treatment? Would those planning to murder others subject themselves to such treatment, assuming that their intentions were evident beforehand, and what is the magic treatment actually available that would stop them? The Texas school shooter committed mass murder only days after his 18th birthday when he could legally buy firearms. Before that, he didn’t murder anyone despite the urge to do so. Not yet possessing a firearm prevented him from carrying out his murderous intentions any earlier. Not having access to firearms subsequently would also have stopped him, as it probably stops likeminded young men in countries with stricter gun laws.

In China, where guns are simply unavailable to most citizens, a violent guy sometimes attacks others with a knife, but he’s easier to overpower than a shooter, often before he does any major damage. Now in Canada, fearing a spill-over from the example of US shootings, Trudeau wants to freeze gun sales and buy back assault weapons. A shooting in Tennessee where underage people were injured got almost no press coverage because no one was actually killed. During the Memorial Day weekend, there were at least 12 shootings where 4 or more people were injured. Little has been reported about the 17 Uvalde victims who were hospitalized after being shot, except that a few have been discharged.

 

James Densley, a professor of criminal justice, and researcher into mass shootings, has said, “The Republican narrative is that we’re not going to touch guns because this is all about mental health. Well then, we need to ask the follow-up question of what’s the plan to fix that mental health problem. Nobody’s saying, ‘Let’s fund this, let’s do it, we’ll get the votes.’ That’s the political piece that’s missing here.”

 

Conversely, is blaming recent mass shootings on “mental health” problems after-the-fact, as many gun-rights advocates are now doing, just a cop-out? Doing so tarnishes the reputation of all those coping with mental health issues, most of whom are not violent. And is any increased funding for mental health services being proposed by gun-rights supporters? Not  hardly.

With about 14 million people in the United States having been diagnosed with a serious mental illness, researcher Jeffrey Swanson, PhD, has emphasized that the number of people with mental illness who commit a mass shooting is a "very small contributor" to the rates of gun violence in the United States. What drives mass casualty shootings and gun death, as Swanson has said, is access to guns.

"Even if you were to do everything possible to eliminate mental illness, you'd really only be addressing around 3% of the violence in this country," Dr. Reena Kapoor, professor of psychiatry at the Yale School of Medicine, has said.

South Dakota Governor Kristi Noem, speaking at the NRA event, bypassed mental health arguments, strongly defending “second amendment rights” and blaming a “woke mob” for social ills. How did the second amendment get so distorted beyond what the Founders ever envisioned?


Newsweek, Just one day after the mass shooting in Texas that killed 19 children and two adults at a primary school in Uvalde, the National Rifle Association (NRA) promoted its "Banned Guns Giveaway" raffle, with prizes including a similar model of assault-style rifle to the one reportedly used by the 18-year-old shooter.

The Hill, More than half of Americans want stricter gun laws: poll

Could the tragic mass school shooting in Texas just days before an NRA convention in that state finally break the hold of the gun lobby on Republican politicians there? What is the tipping point that can overcome the economic strength of the gun lobby and gun manufacturers?

Insider, Guns are now the leading cause of death for kids. Doctors say they've had enough — and they're calling for 2 simple policy changes.

"As physicians, our mission is to heal and to maintain health — but too often the wounds we see in America today resemble the wounds I've seen in war," retired Major General Dr. Gerald Harmon, now president of the American Medical Association, said in a statement. "A week after Buffalo, 10 years after Sandy Hook, 23 years after Columbine; the places and cities change, but the story is the same — too-easy access to firearms, inaction on wildly popular, common-sense safety measures like background checks, and countless lives lost or changed forever."... "Firearm injury is NOW THE TOP CAUSE OF DEATH for kids/teens… overtaking motor vehicle accidents," Dr. Vinny Arora, dean of the University of Chicago Pritzker School of Medicine, wrote in a tweet. "Laws made driving safer. We must do the same for guns."

 

NBC News, Florida mom charged with manslaughter after 2-year-old son shoots dad in back

Personal guns usually prove more of a risk than a protection to their owners.

 

Holland Sentinel, Ray Buursma: Can the number of mass shootings be reduced?

Here are a few of the facts highlighted in this article. Six of the nine most deadly shootings during the last six years were committed by men age 21 or younger. (Already, in most places, alcohol cannot be sold to someone under 21.) Hawaii, Massachusetts, New Jersey, Rhode Island, and New York, with stricter gun regulations, have 4 or 5 gun deaths per 100,000 people while Mississippi, Louisiana, Wyoming, Missouri, Alabama, and Alaska, with fewer gun regulations, have 23-28 deaths per 100,000.

Bloomberg, Mitch McConnell expressed support for a gun-safety deal proposed by a group of bipartisan senators, particularly the expansion of background checks on buyers aged 18 to 21. Some Republicans are coming on board belatedly now on gun control, after being silent for so long. And some from Trump’s inner circle, after not speaking up before, are suddenly questioning his 2020 “win.” Politicians are chameleons.

HuffPost, States Set To Ban Abortions Offer Little Support For Parents And Children

Some Texas residents are asking why their politicians support fetal lives, but not the lives of children already born? So, the abortion debate still continues, though now overshadowed by the “gun rights” debate. “Rights” seems to be the magic word in both cases. What about rights on the other side in either case?

 

Opinions on animal rights seem mixed. I once had a vegan relative living with me who consumed no animal products, no meat, milk, or eggs and avoided leather and even wool. 

 

Miami Herald, Video shows deadly abuse of an octopus, and a Keys stone-crab fisherman is charged

 

Animal abuse is not tolerated, but at what point does a human fetus deserve similar protection? Might it be when the fetus can begin experiencing pain? How would that be determined? Or is it only when the fetus can be sustained outside the womb? And while a woman may march for “my body, my choice,” how about the earlier choice that resulted in a pregnancy?

 

Safety for the would-be mother is not always safe for the would-be child.



 

I now disagree with Amnesty International, an organization to which I’ve belonged for 41 years, whose motto is “safe abortion care is a human right,” thereby supporting abortion up to 28 weeks of pregnancy, as first envisioned in Roe a half century ago. Now “viability” can happen earlier, reflecting medical advances, so 28 weeks is no longer valid.

 

Apparently, fathers have no rights before the child is born, only after the birth and when paternity is established, with rights then almost the same as the mother’s. A father has been able to thwart a mother’s plans to place a child in adoption by stepping up to take custody himself.

 

Economic studies do show that early childbearing, especially during teenage years and especially among black women, does have negative economic consequences for mothers. Pundits supporting “abortion rights” have pointed out that women who have an abortion instead of a baby do better in the workplace and in terms of lifetime income than those who give birth. Is that any surprise? Still, that seems like comparing apples and oranges. What is the economic value—or loss—attributable to the birth and life of a new human being? https://www.rtihs.org/publications/economic-burden-unintended-pregnancy-united-states#:~:text=CONCLUSIONS%3A%20Despite%20declines%20in%20unintended,factoring%20childcare%20and%20indirect%20costs.

CONCLUSIONS: Despite declines in unintended pregnancy rates, the annual cost of unintended pregnancy in the US increased from a 2011 cost of $4.6 billion to $5.5 billion in 2018. The true economic burden is likely higher when factoring childcare and indirect costs.

 

Of course, abortion also has negative consequences for someone who is never even born. Is that someone just a theoretical person? Recently deceased actor Ray Liotta said he was grateful for “being born. For my parents that adopted me.” How about providing more practical and financial help to mothers of young children in need? What are our priorities as a nation?

 

No longer is unwed motherhood stigmatized, which may be why so many single women now keep their babies and rarely relinquish them for adoption. It’s possible to say that unwed motherhood in the US is actually being admired now as a brave choice.

 

Wash. Post, Amid tensions over Roe, some antiabortion centers are being attacked Or, as those centers might describe themselves, ”pro-life centers.”


National Review, Pro-Abortion Terrorists Firebomb Oregon Pregnancy Center

 

AP, Amid abortion debate, clinic asks: Who's caring for moms? Sisters in Birth, a Jackson Mississippi clinic caring for pregnant women, just opened in June 2021. It hopes to expand to provide for births at the center itself. 

 

LA Times, Harris unveils expansion of postpartum health program for low-income moms Bravo, Medicaid coverage for low-income women for a year after giving birth. (Babies are already covered.) This is very practical assistance, which is what is needed.

 

LA Times, Progressive Cisneros requests recount in tight race against Texas Democratic Rep. Cuellar

With Cuellar, a pro-life Texas Democrat, only 187 votes ahead of Cisneros in the primary, there has been a recount, but Cuellar is still  victorious.

Vice World News, They Come to Give Birth in Secret. They Leave Without Their Babies. This is in Japan, where abortion is illegal and single motherhood is stigmatized.

Birth control and abortion have been attempted throughout human history, but only have become widespread and effective in modern times. In the past, it was thought that a fetus did not become “human” until “quickening,” that is, at about 16 weeks, when the expectant mother could feel movement. In days gone by, wet nurses often fed and cared for babies produced by well-to-do women. Bottle feeding was unavailable then and would have probably been unsanitary in any case. Even in my day as the mother of 4 babies, I used cloth diapers that had to be rinsed out in the toilet, then washed and dried at home. I found caring for an infant fairly labor intensive, even though the child slept quite a bit, gradually becoming more independent over time.

 

What is the proper line between being and non-being? Most contraception, something not available to sexually active couples in earlier times, blocks the uniting of sperm and ovum. Sometimes, a fertilized ovum can be kept frozen in suspended animation. It does not start becoming a person until implanted in a uterus, which is how the billions of people in the world today and in uncounted past generations all started out. It’s rather amazing that so many of us are now all here.

 

To be effective parents, people do need a minimum economic floor. President Biden has recognized this, trying to provide parents with a basic income. Any baby born also needs proper care and affection for quite a few years, probably representing a financial loss (investment?) for most parents, at least until they themselves reach old age when they may then require their offspring’s assistance. And those without children still rely on the children of others to support them after they retire. That includes increasingly numerous DINK (double income, no kids) couples who, at various points in their lives, will interact with and may need help from younger people birthed and raised by others. After all, every person, including every DINK, who walks this earth is part of our human family going back eons, someone who started out just as a fetus, then as a baby and a child, whom someone had to nurture and raise. What about the basic human relationship value of having kids? What about living and interacting with them, with simply knowing and loving them? Is that measurable? An adult couple’s relationship is not the only one of value.

 

Among my own kids, I have a DINK couple and 2 who are parents still legally married, but not actually living with their spouses, and a granddaughter who is a parent, but who has never married. My 2 kids with children have produced a total of 3, so, on average, they have more than replaced themselves. Their spouses actually have even more children, but not with them. Does my family reflect a change in family configurations? Probably so, since the traditional nuclear family, two parents producing and raising children together is on the decline, now representing only 18% of US households. Yet, it remains the ideal. My granddaughter, a single mother of mixed racial heritage in her 30s with one child, says the only way she would consider having another baby would be if she were legally married to a man who was a second bread winner and, currently, she has no such prospects. 

 

In developed countries, the average age of both parents at a first birth has been rising steadily and most American couples now say their ideal family would consist of only 2 children. Since some have none, an average of 2 children per family falls short of population replacement. In fact, the average number of children per woman of childbearing age in the US is now down to about 1.7. This is not a good place to be, as overall population then becomes top-heavy at older ages with too many people like me. An average of 2.1 children per woman is needed to keep an optimal, steady, and level population. Census data shows that many US states and cities have a declining population, including Washington, DC.

Brookings, U.S. population growth has nearly flatlined, new census data shows

A HISTORIC DEMOGRAPHIC LOW POINT

Among the many consequences the COVID-19 pandemic has inflicted on the nation, its impact on the nation’s demographic stagnation is likely to be consequential. The new census estimates make plain that as a result of more deaths, fewer births, and a recent low in immigration, America has achieved something close to zero growth in the 2020-21 period. 

NYTimes, Report Reveals Sharp Rise in Transgender Young People in the U.S. Will a gender change, now more socially acceptable, serve these young people for the rest of their lives? Only time will tell.

Moving on now to the international realm, observers of the Ukraine conflict are speculating about Vladimir Putin’s health. He reportedly is preparing one of his daughters to take over for him in the Ukraine “special military operation” should he become disabled. Would she be just as ruthless as her father or might she actually modify his course?

We members of Amnesty International observed on June 4 the 33rd anniversary of the Tiananmen crackdown with candlelight vigils. A similar vigil being held in Hong Kong was shut down by Chinese authorities.

Wash. Post, As Biden eases Trump’s sanctions, Cubans hope for an economic lift

Here’s a Cuba Urgent Action from us as Caribbean volunteers at Amnesty International

Please find UA 49/22, regarding Luis Manuel Otero Alcántara and Mykel Castillo Pérez.

The trials of Manuel Otero Alcántara and Maykel Castillo Pérez, prisoners of conscience, are set to start on 30 May and 31 May, respectively, in Cuba. Otero Alcántara and Castillo Pérez have been in pre-trial detention for nearly a year, after being detained for criticizing the Cuban government. A prosecutor has requested that they be sentenced to seven and ten years in prison. [I, Barbara, have met Otero.] We urge Cuban authorities to grant access to international organizations to monitor the trials and to immediately and unconditionally release these prisoners of conscience.

INTERNAL LINKhttps://oneamnesty.sharepoint.com/sites/iar/3e08d008-ae57-46e0-adf7-5283eb515c23#

EXTERNAL LINKhttps://www.amnesty.org/en/documents/amr25/5660/2022/en/

 

CADAL, Joint statement condemning the charges brought against Maykel “El Osorio” Castillo PĂ©rez and Luis Manuel Otero Alcántara

62 organizations and 78 artists demand that the Cuban government release the artists Maykel «El Osorio» Castillo PĂ©rez, Luis Manuel Otero Alcántara, Abel Lashay, MarĂ­a Cristina Garrido and Randy Arteaga, who were unjustly detained for exercising freedom of expression and argue that these cases are part of a campaign by the Cuban government itself marked by repression and human rights violations in order to intimidate, silence and imprison artists and creatives who dare to criticize them.

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Thursday, May 26, 2022

Grandson, Biden, Disability in Politics, Mass Murder Once Again, Adoption, Parental Fails, Unborn Rights, Midterm Outlook, Executions Worldwide, Secrets, Witchcraft

 I just ran across a photo of me with my then 5-month-old grandson taken back in 2003.

That photo was taken in Honolulu where I’d gone all the way from Honduras where I was still in the Peace Corps, having extended my term an extra year or so. Most other volunteers were eager to return home after 2 ½ years and many had left sooner, but I was reluctant to leave when my time was up, though I did move to another town then. In 2003, flying from Tegucigalpa to Honolulu in 2003 was quite a trek, but I was traveling there for my daughter Stephanie’s wedding and got to see my new grandson as a bonus. He is named Andrew for my older son who died in 1994. Grandson Andrew is now 20 years old and entering his second year of college in Texas. I did leave Honduras some 6 months after my daughter’s marriage, but have returned annually ever since, until Feb./March 2020, when the pandemic struck.

By the way, my gas is still on, despite cutoff threat, though I avoid using it. I’ve requested a hearing.

Small plane crash delays flights out of St. Pete-Clearwater Airport, officials say. https://share.newsbreak.com/152qvu0w This happened right cross the street from where my older daughter works. They heard it before they saw it.

Joe Biden may be doing the best that anyone could expect under present circumstances, but virus-weary citizens are blaming him for not restoring their pre-pandemic life. The buck stops with the president. He’d wanted the job and now he has it, so he owns it.

Recently defeated in the North Carolina Republican primary was one-term Congressman Madison Cawthorn, who uses a wheelchair after injury in an auto accident, as does Republican Texas Governor Greg Abbott. While I disagree with their politics, I’m glad to see that disability is not a barrier to public office. On the Democratic side, among wheelchair users, is Illinois US Senator Tammy Duckworth, injured in military combat.

A few more words are in order about the personal lives of these disparate wheelchair users, as disability rights has been a big part of my own life, both personal and professional. Cawthorn, who entered Congress at age 26, thought once he had won office, he’d be home free, but his sex and drug antics were apparently too much even for his loyal Republican electorate. He was briefly married recently, but, after less than a year, is now facing divorce. Abbott was already married when he became paralyzed by a tree falling on him while he was out jogging. His wife is of Mexican heritage and they have an adopted daughter. On the other side of the aisle is Democratic US Senator Tammy Duckworth, born in Thailand and with a PhD, a former Lt. Col. and helicopter pilot shot down in Iraq whose legs were amputated after that attack. She has 2 daughters.  

Yahoo News, House Ethics Committee investigating Cawthorn trading, staffer affair allegations

The House Ethics Committee is investigating Rep. Madison Cawthorn, R-N.C., for accusations of insider dealing in cryptocurrency and allegations of an improper affair with one of his staff members... Cawthorn, 26, lost a close primary battle last week to North Carolina state Sen. Chuck Edwards, after a broad array of Republicans united against Cawthorn following a deluge of scandals ranging from a video of him naked and thrusting himself onto another man to his own accusations that other members of Congress engaged in cocaine-fueled orgies in Washington. After his surprise loss, Cawthorn promised that a new brand of “Dark Maga” would “rise on the right” in response to his defeat.

In the US, men accounted for 79% of suicide deaths in 2020, most of them among white men, often of middle age, and carried out with guns.  

Now there has been another mass shooting in Texas by an 18-year-old boy, with a reported 19 children and 2 teachers killed. He bought his weapons right after turning 18. Texas is an “open carry” state where no gun permit or license is required. After the shooting in Buffalo, mass murderers may have felt incentivized. Conspiracy theories exploded on the internet. The Founding Fathers supported a "a well -regulated militia" not this. 

ABC News, At least 19 children, 2 teachers dead after shooting at Texas elementary school The shooter was 18, a former student at a local high school. He shot his grandmother first, who at last report, was still alive, but in critical condition. Texas Governor Greg Abbott, along with former President Donald Trump and U.S. Sens. John Cornyn and Ted Cruz, is scheduled to talk Friday at the National Rifle Association's 2022 annual meeting, where no guns will be permitted. How will these various Republican leaders address this recent mass shooting? Abbott has been outspoken advocate for having more guns in circulation in Texas. Where is the so-called “good guy with a gun” who is supposed to take down a shooter? Rarely if ever seen.

Biden’s speech, delivered after his return from Asia, was heart-felt, as he knows what it’s like to lose a child.   

Here was a closely watched primary contest:

CBS News, Only House Democrat who doesn't support abortion rights faces challenger Rep. Henry Cuellar of Texas is the lone anti-abortion Democrat left in the U.S House of Representatives. He has survived challenges from the left over the years because of his strong ties to his border district, and his appeal among constituents who share his more moderate approach. But with the Supreme Court now poised to overturn Roe v. Wade, progressives feel they have their best chance yet to defeat him.

In mainstream media commentary, Cuellar has been described as being “anti-abortion rights” and “anti-choice” when he might actually describe himself as simply being “anti-abortion.” He was also given an “A” rating by the NRA, so his track record is mixed. Cuellar now seems to have squeaked through in the primary, despite a strong “pro-choice” female challenger. Most Democrats don’t dare express pro-life views. Even Rep Nancy Pelosi, a life-long Catholic who gave birth to 5 babies in 6 years, now counts herself in the pro-choice column. Still, members of the pro-life movement have found new energy, becoming more public and more vocal, hoping the Supreme Court decision goes their way.

Fox News, Roe v. Wade called into question by many Democrats, liberal scholars over the years

An estimated 2 million US couples are seeking to adopt a child, preferably an infant, but only 100,000 children here are available for adoption, many no longer babies. These couples and also singles, as well as gay prospective parents, have started looking for adoptive children abroad, including, until only recently, in Ukraine. Increasingly, such would-be parents no longer seek to adopt kids who look like them or who even match their race or ethnicity. Adoptions of “excess” baby girls from China and of mixed-race babies from other Asian countries are no more; instead, mainly children with special needs are coming from Asia.

My late ex-husband and I did not to have to wait long to adopt 2 children in California a few years before Roe and then, after moving to Washington, DC, we adopted our son from Colombia born in 1974, the year after the 1973 Roe decision when local adoptions had dried up. Meanwhile, I had already given birth to a daughter in 1972, which would have been a barrier then to a domestic adoption in any case. So, I do have personal connections to the abortion issue--“skin in the game.” If more babies were available for adoption, more couples might become committed to the “pro-life” stance, or maybe their commitment needs to come first. I feel that both giving birth to and adopting children has enriched my life in different ways and has allowed me to leave a living legacy beyond the personal impact of my friendships, professional work, Peace Corps service, books, and this blog.

Women do have much better control of their fertility now than ever before in human history, going back to the time, not so very long ago, when married and other partnered women felt obliged to do their wifely duty and submit sexually to their husbands, despite the risk of unwanted pregnancy. Composer Johann Sebastian Bach had 20 children with his 2 wives. Even more recently, many families were large, like that of my paternal great-grandparents with 12 kids, and it was not uncommon in large families to have one or 2 children die before reaching adulthood.

According to Wikipedia, Valentina Vassilyev and her husband Feodor Vassilyev are alleged to hold the record for the most children a couple has ever produced. She is reputed to have given birth to a total of 69 children – sixteen pairs of twins, seven sets of triplets and four sets of quadruplets – between 1725 and 1765, a total of 27 births; 67 of the 69 children were said to have survived infancy.

Allegedly, Vassilyev also had six sets of twins and two sets of triplets with a second wife, for another 18 children in eight births, so he supposedly fathered a total of 87 children. Of course, some men have fathered even more, as the number of children from a single father can reach astronomical proportions. Whether records from long ago are reliable, however, is questionable.

The Pew Research Center now identifies families with 4 (or more) children as “large,” whereas in the 1930s and ‘40s, having 4 children was considered usual and pretty ideal. Now the ideal is to have only 2 children and most American couples are sticking by that. Perhaps I raised a large family, 4 children, 5 with my foster son, but that was some time ago.

When I was board chair of a local adoption agency, now closed, because of our location here in the DC area, we oversaw adoptions by some families of note. More recently, surrogacy arrangements in the US were becoming more frequent and we often became involved with those as well. Our local surrogates were all African American women carrying babies of various ethnicities, some the biological offspring of one or both prospective parents. Surrogacy was expensive, deservedly so, but couched in terms, at least when we were doing it, that represented it as a cost, such the cost of lost wages, cost of a special diet, etc. and not as payment per se for the service of carrying and birthing the baby. Surrogacy, along with sperm and even egg donation, has been muddying the waters around parenthood. Sometimes the woman who gives birth is designated as the mother, at other times, it’s the egg donor. These are all developments since Roe, which estimated viability at 28 weeks, while now it’s down to 21 or 22 weeks and going lower.  

Nowadays, a birth mother relinquishing a baby doesn’t have to give up all future contact, but should probably avoid too close involvement while the child is growing up. If the pending Supreme Court decision on Roe and expected changes in some state laws actually result in more parents giving birth to and then relinquishing a baby, there are plenty of would-be adoptive parents out there just waiting and hoping. Now a birth mother giving up a child usually has some say in choosing the adoptive parents. The secrecy of the past was due to the great stigma involved in giving birth out of wedlock. A birth mother was supposed to resume her life after relinquishing the child as if the birth had never happened, sometimes not even telling her future husband. And in Honduras still, and even in the US in bygone days, the child may never even have been told that he or she was adopted. In the US now, the bio father also has a say about the child’s future and may even claim custody.

Of course, any sort of person might result from a birth. A child’s subsequent development might produce another Einstein or Marie Curie, or maybe someone more like Vladimir Putin or Donald Trump?  

As mentioned before, the adoption system in Honduras is so complicated that people I know there simply have given up, putting the new parents’ names on the birth certificate registered at the hospital, then leave with the newborn. I don’t know if the child is ever told about his/her biological parents. In the US as well, before the advent of bio heritage or genealogy websites, many folks did not find out they were adopted or were the product of a sperm donation. Now, many have been surprised.

I acknowledge that pill abortions are going to continue, regardless of laws, even though an incipient individual life is being eradicated. It’s the life of a specific human whose gender is already established, with blue or brown eyes, dark or light skin, black or blond hair, someone who was just starting to grow. The prolife movement’s slogan now is “Life is a human right.”

Sometimes a pregnant woman promises to relinquish her baby to someone covering her prenatal and medical expenses and who also agrees to keep her updated on the child’s progress while growing up. However, some women have changed their mind about giving up the baby after the actual birth. Then would-be adoptive parents have little recourse.

Adoption, as I can attest, may present slightly different parenting challenges than those involved in giving birth to biological children, but raising children always presents challenges, as with any human relationship. Every child, regardless of origin, is a unique individual, often exhibiting surprising characteristics or special talents, part of the fun and excitement of parenthood. The child can also display rather challenging traits at different stages, whatever his or her origin. Being a single mother such as I became, without any adequate support or involvement by the father, can also make the job that much harder, but single parenthood is all too common.

Parenting can also be tragic for some parents and their children. Daily News, 9-year-old Brooklyn girl cried ‘Mommy, help me,’ as she died after hours of beatings and abuse: prosecutors This is a chilling story about a woman with 2 daughters who never should have had children. The mental image of the girl begging her mother to help her when that mother was actually killing her is hard to shake. Another tragic motherhood story involves a single woman totally devoted to her only child who accidentally put her car into drive instead of reverse, killing the girl as she waited in the driveway. A mother could never recover from making such a fatal error.

Is there anything more to say about these two very different tragedies? Only that motherhood—parenthood—is an enormous responsibility. I still feel that I failed as the mother of my older son, Andrew, and of my Cuban foster son, Alex, although both died as adults, one year apart, living far away from me, both in Florida, as it turns out. It’s hard to lose someone when you don’t have a partner to share your grief. And a child should never die before a parent, so we now expect and have come to believe, though it still happens. It might be said that Jackie Kennedy was “fortunate” that her son died shortly after her own death, not before it.

It will be a relief when the Supreme Court finally renders its abortion decision so that emotions and rhetoric on both sides might then start settling down. The justices have probably made up their minds already and their final decision is not actually going to have major practical effects here in the US because early abortions will still be the vast majority and won’t be prohibited by the Court. These abortions will be done at home with pills obtainable wherever a woman lives, regardless of local laws. Furthermore, increases in effective contraception and also sterilization means that each year, fewer and fewer abortions have been actually taking place in this country. After the first 3 months of pregnancy, abortions may become further restricted by the high court, also following public opinion at that stage, since most Americans already express objections after the 3-month point. Justice Roberts has asked, “Isn’t 15 weeks long enough?” However, his suggested 15 weeks might be slightly reduced to 3 months, or 12-13 weeks, according to speculations about the final high court decision. Abortions will still be permitted in cases of serious fetal defects or health threats to the mother. The relatively few cases that may actually be called into question after the Supreme Court’s verdict might involve a normal pregnancy that has progressed beyond 3 months because a woman was unaware of being pregnant or has changed her mind after breaking up with a male partner or involves an underage girl hiding her pregnancy. These cases, if publicized, may then become new points of contention.

AP, New York high court to determine if Bronx Zoo elephant is a person

While Americans debate whether a human fetus is actually a person (Biden seems to have changed his mind over the years), now an elderly domesticated elephant in NYC is being described as a “person” by her advocates, thereby meriting special protections. A Pa. woman who put newborn kittens in her freezer was charged with felony animal cruelty.

Although abortions may have been attempted throughout history and birth control measures as well, it is only in our lifetime that birth control and legal abortion have become effective and accepted by a substantial portion of the population, at least in developed countries. As mentioned before, in Honduras, where abortion is still illegal and birth control is not widespread, tubal ligation is common among women after they have given birth to 2 or 3 children. Vasectomies are usually shunned by Honduran men, but are reportedly gaining traction here in the US as more American men reportedly are signing up for the procedure, as some expect abortions to become less available. I know American men who have chosen this path who report that it can now be done with a single incision and that they notice no difference afterward.

In past eras, in the US and some European countries, well-to-do women had their newborn babies fed by “wet nurses,” that is, by other lactating women who also often took care of the infants. Now, here in the US and perhaps elsewhere, a shortage of baby formula, which has largely replaced breastmilk, has become a widespread concern and a calamity. Nursing has many advantages, offering a ready source of ideal nourishment to the infant as well as sensual stimulation to the mother to incentivize her to keep on nursing and keeping her and her baby bonded. Bottle feeding, while often convenient, especially for working mothers, isn’t quite the same. (I’ve done both.) Nursing also delays the return of menstruation and may act as a natural form of birth control, though not a totally reliable one. The positive effects of nursing and its advantages are not often discussed. Nursing does prevent the need to make sure that baby bottles are sterile and that formula is on hand, and also saves money. And while breast pumping is possible to extract the milk, actual nursing does require baby and mother to spend time together, usually intimate quality time, as nursing doesn’t happen fast. It promotes natural bonding.

Now that feeding a baby no longer requires a mother’s presence, early infant and child care have been increasingly outsourced. Surrogacy and other reproductive options are also outsourcing pregnancy and genetic inheritance. Artificial wombs lie in the future, though not in my lifetime, but if this blog remains accessible after my death, know that I predicted as much. The connection between parents and children will increasingly become a legal bond, depending less on genetics and even on spending time together. While emotional bonds between parents and offspring may not develop as strongly in the future, children will also be spared the worst threats of child abuse and neglect by being cared for in monitored group settings.

Houston Chronicle, Southern Baptist leaders covered up sexual abuse crisis for decades, a report finds Southern Baptists are dealing again with sexual abuse claims, including about decades of coverup. Wherever there is a power dynamic with men in charge, it seems that sex abuse occurs, whether against women, underage kids, or even some male subordinates. I have seen it play out in my previous work as an interpreter, not only among churches or groups such as Boy Scouts, but just among people with unequal standing in a work or other setting. (An interpreter, like a fly on the wall, is not a recognized participant in an interaction, but is necessarily present and an intimate observer serving as the essential conduit of communication between the parties.)

Wash. Post, Southern Baptist leaders covered up sex abuse, kept secret database: report

Wash. Post, A pastor confessed to ‘adultery.’ The woman cried out: ‘I was just 16.’

Senator Ted Cruz (R./ Texas) may have a point in coining the term “toxic femininity.” Unhealthy dynamics can emerge when women are dominant over men, though that happens much less often than the reverse.

Truckers are now planning to come back to Washington, DC, to protest fuel costs, as well they might. If ordinary drivers see a huge cost jump at the pump, imagine a trucker filling up his tank with diesel. For all drivers, the war in Ukraine as a contributor to this rise may seem abstract. Not everyone is even quite sure where to look for Ukraine on a map.

 

Meanwhile, here in the US, sharp political differences continue. 

CBS News poll: More Americans label GOP extreme, but Democratic Party as weak Many potential mid-term voters are unhappy with their choices.

Reuters, U.S. First Lady Jill Biden visits Costa Rica children's hospital

Jill Biden has taken quite a few solo trips to various parts of the world, something that Melania Trump rarely did. Melania now seems to have checked out, not accompanying Donald on any of his political forays. Maybe their agreement only covered his term as president.

Wash. Post, Hong Kong Catholic church cancels Tiananmen memorial Mass This is not totally surprising.

Daily Beast, Vladimir Putin’s Secret Grandchild Is a Zelensky, Says Report [No, this 2-year-old girl is not related to that Zelensky.]


Reuters, Rwanda expects first asylum seekers from UK soon

This is one way to keep asylum seekers out of Britain.

Worldwide death penalty figures are out from Amnesty International: 579 known executions in 18 countries in 2021, an increase of 20% from the 483 recorded in 2020. This figure represents the second lowest number of executions recorded by Amnesty International since at least 2010. Most known executions took place in China, Iran, Egypt, Saudi Arabia and Syria – in that order.

China remained the world’s leading executioner – but the true extent of its use of the death penalty is unknown as this data is classified as a state secret; the global figures for executions and death sentences therefore exclude the thousands of people that Amnesty International believes to have been sentenced to death and executed in China. Figures for North Korea and Viet Nam, which are believed to have extensively resorted to executions, were also not included in the global executions figure, as secrecy and lack of access to independent information made it impossible to assess trends.

Amnesty International recorded 24 women among the 579 people known to have been executed in 2021 (4%), in the following countries: Egypt (8), Iran (14), Saudi Arabia (1) and USA (1). Belarus, Japan and UAE resumed executions. Amnesty International did not record any executions in IndiaQatar and Taiwan, having done so in 2020.

Iran executed at least 314 people (up from at least 246 in 2020), their highest number of executions since 2017, reversing year-on-year declines since then. Recorded executions in Saudi Arabia rose sharply, from 27 to 65, an increase of 140% percent. Despite these increases, the 2021 global executions figure constitutes the second-lowest figure recorded by Amnesty International since at least 2010.

 

No doubt many have experienced a not uncommon phenomenon, though perhaps I should only speak for myself. What I am referring to is knowledge of secrets within a family that friends may be well aware of, but about which family members themselves may be oblivious, at least consciously. I’ve seen such hidden aspects both among friends here and in Honduras, where I’ve often stayed in family homes. These may be of an intimate nature, such as that the wife was in a sexual relationship before marriage and maybe had even given up a child for adoption, but her husband and subsequent children don’t know this. You know only because you’ve known her since childhood, but have been sworn to secrecy. Another hush-hush item is about a husband known to carry on affairs, but his longtime wife can’t imagine that other women would find him attractive. Or either wife or husband may have a long-ago criminal record. Another guy shows fairly obvious gay mannerisms and is often absent from home because of his work. His wife muses that he might have “another woman” out there somewhere, but it’s more likely “another man.” (A long-time bachelor, he had reportedly proposed to his future wife before even so much as having held her hand. “He was so respectful,” she says.) Sometimes, there is also a spouse who has stashed away a secret inheritance not being shared with the family. Or an elderly person faces a serious, even terminal, illness, but the family is not revealing it to him or her. In all such cases, unless there is an overriding reason to reveal the secret to the persons involved and if some sort of equilibrium now seems to prevail, I see no reason to shatter it. Being aware of such hidden secrets in other families, I can only wonder if there are some crucial disclosures my own family and friends might be keeping from me? I know some are concerned about my occasional memory lapses, something I readily acknowledge, which is why I gave up my driver’s license at age 80, write reminder notes to myself, and check the calendar every single day. I hope that’s good enough for now.

BrujerĂ­a (“witchcraft,” “sorcery”) [Received from Cuban Studies Institute]

The usual term to denote any Afro-Cuban religion and all other practices similarly dismissed as superstitions. The word is also used by followers of the cults themselves to denote black magic – the deliberate misuse of legitimate religious techniques for malicious ends. All santeros are supposed to be capable of black magic, but no one admits to practicing it. The rituals of the less familiar cults are believed to consist exclusively of black magic, with the smallest and least known credited with the most dangerous powers. They include, in rough order of deadliness, the Ă‘añigos, Congolese, Jamaicans, Haitians, Canary Islanders, and Chinese. Beliefs in SanterĂ­a are likely to attribute to sorcery such abnormal and inexplicable conditions as insanity and any condition that fails to improve when appropriate offerings have been made to the orisha. Cubans unassociated with any cult may still be frightened at apparent indications of occult malice; for instance, white chicken feathers unaccountably found in the house. Counter magic obtainable from a santero may be thought necessary. 


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Thursday, May 19, 2022

Gas Bill Hearing Request, More Shootings, More Guns, Covid, Trucker Convoy Returning, Ukraine, North Korea, Cuba, Abortion Again


Trying now to post more often with shorter postings, as quirks keep popping up in the posts, which never come out as intended. Interference with my original design distracts from what I’m trying to say. Let’s see if I can become less wordy, though too late now to change to a venue that might be more user friendly.

My May 11 request, sent via the internet, for a hearing by the People’s Council on my threatened gas cutoff stemming from a billing disagreement had received no response. So today I called the council and a live person answered! Will keep you posted.

Madison Cawthorn, who was way out of his depth in Congress, won’t be coming back. He was too much even for North Carolinians, and is now finding his taunts against Liz Cheney being used against him: “hey hey, goodbye.” 

The Buffalo shooter is rarely named to deny him that notoriety. Of course, he live-streamed his rampage, ever mindful of publicity. He had apparently shown disturbing behavior before, though perhaps that’s true of other young men his age, so a sustained intervention may not be undertaken. It’s always a judgement call. There are probably just too many troubling cases to try to tackle them all and, even so, there may be no good way to predict and stop most future violence. How does a legal system assess intent and what can actually be done about it before the fact? We can’t lock up all young men who might have fantasies of committing violence.

Reducing firearms access for everyone, not just volatile young men, would go along way toward reducing gun fatalities in the US, bringing them more in line with the relatively few happening in other developed countries. Gun manufacturing and gun sales have been rising steadily here since 2000. We already have an established gun culture and too many firearms already in circulation, so it’s hard to know just where to begin. And does the “right to bear arms” really include assault rifles for civilians? Gun buybacks should certainly continue, as fewer guns mean fewer gun deaths. But the vision of a heroic armed bystander saving the day is largely a myth, rarely being fortuitously on the scene when a massacre breaks out. Sometimes an armed homeowner kills an intruder during an apparent home break-in, though such a shooting can also end up targeting a family member who shows up unexpectedly.

Guys like the Buffalo shooter are often super-secretive about their plans and resistant to any interventions before the fact. Did this shooter’s parents ever anticipate a problem? Or did they try to overlook it? Or maybe they just didn’t know what to do or were afraid of their son themselves. It’s really scary for parents to raise their little boy and suddenly have him turn into a monster. How does that happen? What can parents do to foresee or prevent something like that? Since their son had shown concerning behavior a year before that led to an intervention, maybe they thought that had been sufficient and that any threat had been averted. He apparently had been quietly lying low ever since, carefully hiding signs of preparations for his vengeful plot from his parents.

NBC News, Fox News’ Tucker Carlson under fresh scrutiny after Buffalo mass shooting Carlson, outspoken purveyor of “white replacement theory,” has not mentioned it for a few days now except to say it’s an idea coming from the “left.”  

 

LA Times, Letters to the Editor: There are 400 million guns in America. What did we expect? More guns here now than people.


Reuters, Prosecutor won't rule out death penalty for California church shooter

While Americans were distracted by the Buffalo massacre, another shooting occurred in Laguna Woods, California, where the suspect was subdued after killing one person and wounding 5 others. The shooter and his victims all shared Chinese ethnicity. The shooter, a US citizen, had grown up in Taiwan, a nation against which he held a bitter grudge, while most of his victims also apparently had Taiwanese connections. Again, as with the Buffalo shooting, someone with a grudge can easily acquire firearms.  


The Hill, Manchin pushes for his gun reform bill in wake of Buffalo mass shooting

W. Va. Senator Joe Manchin has again brought up the bipartisan legislation that he and Sen. Pat Toomey (R-Pa.) had first proposed about a decade ago, just months after the Sandy Hook Elementary School shooting, mandating background checks for all commercial gun sales. How many mass shootings have occurred since?

In North Korea, Kim is blaming government officials for Covid’s spread, so they may face discipline or worse. Heads may roll and, in North Korea, that’s not just a figure of speech. Meanwhile, Kim is distracting the outside world with weapons and missile displays.

Wall St. Journal, COVID cases are surging in the Northeast, the Midwest, Florida, and California.

Covid is also back in the US or just never went away, so no time to take off the masks. Some people are tired of taking precautions, saying, to heck with it, if I die, then I die.

Alabama jailer Vicki White was blinded by her infatuation with a prisoner whom she then helped to escape from custody. Suicide was her own escape when they were finally caught. Anyone can be susceptible to the allure of “true love,” a rush of feelings aroused by adrenalin and other hormones. Her prisoner companion exploited her emotional vulnerability. When we are being flooded with overwhelming emotions, the voice of reason and experience is often ignored. 


Vicki White may have enjoyed a few days of intense excitement and extreme exhilaration, but then took her own life when she realized that the party was over.  

Wash. Post, A rural county in Iowa that supported Trump turns to Latinos to grow

This mostly White, mostly Republican, stronghold has been weighing how to stop its steep population decline.

As the residents of rural towns grows older and passes away, either more births or more immigrants are needed to maintain current population levels. The same is happening in small-town West Va. where my son now lives.

Now, over a million Covid deaths in just the last 2+ years, the US has achieved a dubious world record, more than the total number of deaths from the 1918 flu as well as all deaths from AIDS, and Covid is still not over yet.

Say not so, but the trucker convoy has announced plans to return to DC, to clog up the beltway again. I forget what the truckers are protesting, the price of gas, vaccination, the wearing of facemasks in public? They really don’t like President Biden, that’s clear. 


Wash. Post, Hawaiian communities seek answers to ‘infestation of feral chickens’

Some 6 years ago, when I was visiting my son and his family outside Honolulu, those darn wild chickens, namely the roosters, kept me awake all night with their incessant crowing, sending long relays back and forth. Local folks just tuned them out. Those birds were among many that apparently had escaped from domestic chicken coops. Since it never gets cold there and abundant foliage provides places for the birds to nest and procreate, they’ve kept on proliferating. High time to cook up a tasty chicken soup! But only if you can catch one.   

Vladimir Putin has been rumored to be seriously ill and also getting discouraged, as his plans in Ukraine are not going well, though he has now successfully launched new laser weapons to take out drones. He probably expected an easier victory. Putin has apparently withdrawn his objections to Finland’s and Sweden’s plans to join NATO, reportedly telling them to just go ahead, though also warning them of dire consequences. Who is the real Putin and is he actually intending to do anything about their NATO membership? And, is Mr. Putin, in fact, ill after all? Or is that just his opponents’ wishful thinking or a sly rumor that he himself has floated? If he is genuinely ill, he may lash out even more recklessly, feeling he has nothing left to lose. At the moment, neither side is “winning” the Ukraine war, or as Putin prefers to call it, “A special military operation.” He may now be aiming to achieve more limited, face-saving, objectives.

INSIDE AMNESTY’S CRISIS EVIDENCE LAB

The documentary team at Vox Media just released a short video of a "deep dive" into Amnesty’s work to meticulously collect and verify evidence of cluster bombs being used in Ukraine. It has been watched over 1 million times already.

Amnesty’s Moscow office is now CLOSED.

North Korea was able to keep Covid out through strict isolation from the outer world, but now the virus has breached its borders. Authorities there are confronting Covid without vaccines or medications, with 27 reported deaths so far and probably many more going unreported. More accurate estimates put the total at one million or more cases there. Lockdowns have been ordered, but rather belatedly. Must North Koreans simply wait and hope they won’t become infected? South Korea has offered assistance, but the north has not responded so far.

Shanghai’s massive lockdown continues, though the virus seems to have been finally controlled there.

Wash. Post, Biden to lift Trump-era restrictions on Cuba

NBC News, A Cuban migrant crossed the Rio Grande with one leg. 'I'm going to take the risk.'

Now safely in Florida, Julio MartĂ­nez, described his multi-country journey starting out in Cuba last month that got him reunited with family in Miami after 21 days of perilous travel. MartĂ­nez, age 63, who has only one leg, started out by flying to Managua, as Nicaragua allows Cubans to enter there without a visa. Cubans arriving via Managua are bankrolled by US-based relatives, as well by the sale of belongings in Cuba, so they would have nothing to return to if deported. Cuba is not accepting deportation flights from the US now anyway.

Around 35,000 Cubans were apprehended in April at the U.S. Mexico border. We Amnesty International volunteers are seeing more requests for support of Cuban asylum petitions, but the backlog of asylum requests means it will be quite a while before petitioners get their day in court. I actually know Cubans who have fled recently and crossed via Mexico.

I have a long personal history with Cuban refugees, beginning with my late foster son Alex, an unaccompanied minor, placed in my home by the International Rescue Committee, who arrived via the Mariel boatlift in 1980 and died of AIDS in 1995. As per my Confessions book, I was able to find his mother in rural eastern Cuba in 1997, where we mourned Alex together, the youngest of her 12 children. Now, 27 years later, I pay tribute to Alex, who died of AIDS in 1995, one year after my dear son Andrew, my oldest, who died after a work accident.

Alex at the White House. No tall fences around the White House back then.



         Alex dressed our dog Claire in human clothes.




            I placed flowers on Alex's unmarked grave after his death.

  My son Andrew’s gravestone is still in my backyard in Washington, DC. 


Marc Frank in Havana Russia’s war in Ukraine has created fresh problems for its Caribbean ally Cuba, already shaken by street protests and facing severe financial stress amid tighter US sanctions and a pandemic-induced collapse in tourism.

Cubans have contended with chronic shortages of food, medicine and other basic goods for more than two years, owing to the country’s heavy dependency on imports and lack of dollars to pay. Now, there are fuel shortages, more blackouts and less public transport as the island’s communist government battles to secure costly petrol and diesel supplies...The Ukraine war has been diplomatically awkward for Cuba, with its government blaming the conflict on the US and Nato while also calling for the respect of international borders.                                                 Paul Hare, former UK ambassador to Havana, said Cuba, like other Russia- aligned countries, had been embarrassed by the invasion, noting how the island’s government had wanted to deepen relations with the EU. “That perhaps explains why Cuba didn’t vote against the UN General Assembly on March 2 condemning the Russian invasion but abstained,” he added. Hare, now a senior lecturer at Boston University’s Pardee School of Global Studies, said the war had forced Cuba to pick the wrong side in what the EU considered a strategic threat. Relations with Brussels were already strained because of the draconian prison sentences imposed on hundreds of participants in last year’s anti-government protests. “Cuba will be seen as complicit in Putin’s attempt to redraw the map of Europe and upend the world order,” he said.

The following about a little known aspect of Cuban history comes from the Cuban Studies Institute.

Prostitution
 Under the Spanish colonial administration, prostitution was widespread and regulated. In 1885 there were two hundred registered brothels in Havana. The majority were located in the waterfront and industrial areas of the old city and employed mostly Canary Islanders, Black, mulattos, and poor white women. By 1900 the number had increased by one half. Prostitutes were numerous on such streets as Virtudes and Prado. Some eastern European prostitutes came with the early 1900s immigration wave. In the 1950s special districts and brothels existed catering to different socioeconomic levels. Thus, one brothel catering to tourists had English-speaking, fair haired, and blue-eyed young Cuban girls. From the mid-1950s American gangsters influenced not only the brothels, but also the hotels and casinos, from Havana to Varadero. In 1958 Havana had 270 registered brothels and an estimated 11,500 women working as prostitutes. It was a boast of the Revolution of 1959 that it had ended both the industry and the socioeconomic conditions that provided its labor force. Under the economic conditions of the “Special Period” of the 1990s, however the government began to condone prostitution to enhance tourism, and smartly dressed jineteras were highly visible in all tourist hotels. In 1996, thanks in large part to the Cuban male’s machista reluctance to use condoms, some 40,000 Cubans were suffering from syphilis or gonorrhea, and many others from AIDS.

The anti-abortion side has a new slogan: “Life is a human right.” Though I might be described as liberal on most political issues, nonetheless as both an adoptive and a birth mother, as well having been an interpreter for families of preemie infants, I find myself less than enthusiastic about “abortion rights,” especially after the first 3 months of fetal life, as said before. I may have also been influenced by growing up Catholic, though after my husband divorced me, I became less observant. And while babies born prematurely may confront ongoing health challenges, at least they will have a life, and early care for them has kept improving. Their birth and survival have also revealed a fetus/infant’s reality at a given developmental stage, helping prevent abortions contemplated at that time, namely at about 21-24 weeks of gestation, when abortions might then be considered killings, though killing in self-defense is usually allowable. And the line is likely to get even earlier. But if the mother’s life or health or a serious fetal defect requires terminating a pregnancy at that stage, it should be done humanely with proper pain control, not simply by piercing the fetal skull, as may have been the practice previously. Much has been happening in reproduction, including egg and sperm donation and surrogacy, complicating the determination of parental “rights,” making the Roe decision outdated. More nuance is required now.

At Harvard, warring groups appeared on both sides of the abortion debate.  

 

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¡En Cuba se Tortura! [From CADAL]

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